"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I like this girl. What shall I do? How do I approach her?

Leaderofthepack

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Basically the title. I'd like to get to talk to this girl whether for dating or just to play around. I believe she thinks I'm cute coz one time I said something 'cute' and she pulled my cheeks (my face-cheeks that is)
and we both smiled.

But how do I show her I like her, with a pick up line? (don't think so) Do I even show that I like her? I read somewhere here that you shouldn't or something, because that makes them think they're the prize and whatnot.

So what do I do?

Ps: Please don't answer if your gonna flame or be rude.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JLW

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Talk to her, flirt with her, make her laugh.

Don't be self-depracating, be confident, comfortable, etc.

Ask her to hang out. Then go from there.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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I'm not going to tell you what to do exactly... I'll just show you what would happen and basic things on how to keep her hooked.

1) Don't show that you like you like her... because... you are the prize, right?
-She will think you're not interested... she will NOT pick up on the fact that you like her if you don't show it.


2) Do show that you like you like her... because... ...you do.
-If you're having fun flirting and making her laugh... she'll most likely be happy to do the same for you.

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If you do not show her you're interested... she won't know it... unless you straight up tell her... which is a NO-NO.

But if you do show her you like her... and she shows that you like her too... don't get all obsessed... don't show her you like her like a freakin stalker or something. Subtly show her you like her (which is flirting). She'll clue you in on when she wants more... she'll say things that obviously show she wants to hangout/talk/etc with you if you keep playing with her interest levels (show you're interested in her one minute... the next you're interest shifts to something else).
 
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