"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I like my friends 300 pound mom...

ladiesman217

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Nah just kidding, I just wanted a cool title.

I've got this friend and she will snapchat me three or four times a week, most of the time it's something stupid. Sometimes I'll reply but when I do she won't... She keeps initiating contact via text/snapchat. But when I reply nothing. She even said she wanted to hang out and tried to set up a date. Am I getting played or is this girl just REALLY boring?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'd say if she never responds, probably just needing a lift or validation.

i'd try just opening the message and not responding, see what she does.
 

ladiesman217

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Nite said:
i'd say if she never responds, probably just needing a lift or validation.

i'd try just opening the message and not responding, see what she does.
I do, I only respond to a third of them but she keeps sending me them. Its been going on for a month or so.

hmm... I hadn't thought of her messaging me for validation. Thats a good point...
 
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