Hi there, heres my problem i have a friend in collage with me that i like and ive been her firend for about 4 years but only recently we have become good friends. she has a b/f at the moment and im the only person she tells things about her relationship to. A few months ago me and my friend were in a park with her before she had a b/f and basicly things escalated into her telling my friend who liked her back then that if he wants to snog her then do it now. He craped himself and didnt do it. Well a few days ago me and her were going up the shop and what happened with her in the park with him came up and i said "i cant believe he didnt snog you" and then she looked at me with wide eyes and said "why? you would have would you?" and i said "hell yea i would" then the convo fell silent for a few seconds before she new topic arose. She also wants to sit by me in our collage comonroom all the time and goes for walks with me. She also offten rests her head on my shoulder and gets snuggly next to me. she also always talks to me about people she has problems with or when she wants t slag someone off. Recently all my mates and her mates have said that she likes me and also random girls have said it looks like she likes me. She told me 2 days ago that i am better looking than the boy she was going to snog and her old b/f and that i have brains. I replyed to this saying. "its nice to know someone loves me" and she replyed with "awww of course i do" i dont know if im taking these signs to seriously but i dont know if she might like me or not. I wont make no moves when she has a b/f im not like that. Do you guys think she likes me or not and what should i do?
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I like her but she has a b/f?!(She might like me)
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seems that she really does like you. no harm in asking her out. the only way to find out the truth is to ask her, not one of her friends, but her. make sure you have the right mindset, be confident, and dont put to much weight on her. remember al the stuff youve read in the articles section that applys to you, especially about you being the prize. now, i have no idea if what you have gave us is all of what happened or even entirerly truthful, so just take this as my opinion
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sounds to me like your deep in the friend zone. be prepared for, "i dont like you like that" "it would ruin our friendship" etc.
Update.
She today founf out that her b/f was cheating on her. well she text him saying she was going to sh*g someone with a huge co*k. Once sent she asked me if i knew anyone with a huge co*k. i then said well actualy i do. he works mon-fri(She knows this is me coz im always complaining about how much i work and howmuch school work i have) She then smiled at me and said "Ill have to add him to my to do list" whilst walking off. What does this mean to you guys?
She today founf out that her b/f was cheating on her. well she text him saying she was going to sh*g someone with a huge co*k. Once sent she asked me if i knew anyone with a huge co*k. i then said well actualy i do. he works mon-fri(She knows this is me coz im always complaining about how much i work and howmuch school work i have) She then smiled at me and said "Ill have to add him to my to do list" whilst walking off. What does this mean to you guys?