"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i like a girl who is messed up

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Well I met this girl back in June, and we’ve been friends since then. She’s a pretty ****ed up, unstable, girl who has no idea what to do with herself. She’s basically lost. She had a pretty wild past, drugs, raves, multiple sex partners, but none of this really bothers me. I like this girl very much, not sure why since I never pictured myself falling for someone like her. I had sex with her back in July, and then there was three other attempts which were a completely failure. I want to know what she wants from me, so like that if she doesn’t want to be with me; I can stop thinking about the possibility of being with her. I would prefer that she crushes my hopes now before I fall too deep in the hole. Now, I recently told her how I felt about her and I wanted to know how she felt about me, for I am unable to read her. At times I feel as though she feels the same way about me as I do for her, and at other time the complete opposite. Now she was unable to give me a yes or no answer to whether or not she would date me, and tells me that I’ll get my answer by watching the movie Breakfest at Tiffany’s, because she can relate herself to Audrey Hepburn’s character. She tells me that she can really relate to this character, since the character is crazy as well. I tell her to stop the BS and simply do me the favor of telling me straight up what she wants. Anyways, she never told me, I watched the movie like a fairy, good movie, yet after watching the movie, I’m still confused. I didn’t get an answer. I haven’t spoke to her since that night I popped the question about dating. What can you DJs suggest I do?

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are history with this girl. You will not f_cuk her agai, nor is she going to date you. She probably has already fuc_ed a bunch of men already.

You were lucky enough to nail her. Her not coming back for more is a sign she didnt get satisfied. She is pretty messed up so don't expect anything from her.

Sorry to break it to you and sorry for be harsh......
 

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beh... thats the type of answer i was expecting anyways.... pretty much needed an outsider to answer me my question. thanks. i guess its time to NEXT her.
 

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yeah, take a step back and look at what the whole scenario offers you- at best, a relationship with bad company.... bang her if she's giving it to you on a plate- otherwise NEXT, it would probably end in ruin from what I can see anyway- even if you stayed friends with her- sorry dude.
 

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dude leave now!
she is from the kind of girls that like to dream alot and only care bout themselves... leave her or u'll end up loveing her and dying because SHE will leave u.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chemistry

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Come on maaan... how you gonna 'like' a girl who is messed up...

We're simple creatures man... you 'like' this girl because you fvcked her, if you fvcked her friend I bet you'd 'like' her too...

Messed up chick = years of unhappiness in the future... there's so many chicks out there, get yourself a normal one they're more fun...
 
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Wake up kid, The Matrix has you!!!
 

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Birds of feathers flock together, maybe you're messed up as well too.
 

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I used to like....REALLY like...a girl with major issues. She was the type of chick who slit her wrists and even tried to commit suicide once ...and to put icing on the cake she was MAJORLY attention seeking. I made out and fvcked her once, then she ditched me :wave:

Dude, stay away from this chick.:nono:
 
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