I left her but still.........

[drormo]

i dated this girl for two yrs 'not realy a 10 girl but still this relationship lasted this much.

i always felt i satteld for less that i can achive and this frustrated me.she on the other side felt like she got a great cach and always treated me with respect like arabian shick doing all this stuff for me and all.......

i somehow stop doing sport and gaind a lot of whight.
i became a "couch potato" eating my self to death.

with all this "comfort" it got to a point i could not have any more of this and we split up.

i returned to my normal state go back to business and now 5 month after we split suddenly i feeling empty without her

woundering if i did the biggest mistake of my life i'm not a kid 'and i would want to have a family of my own'in my eyes she would be the perfect house wife.......

i tend to forget why i left her in the first place.......

what im asking is youre opinion of what i done
mabey some approval of some kind - words of wisdom
thank you all and good night/

 

[Don_Marko]

Originally posted by drormo
i always felt i satteld for less that i can achive

i somehow stop doing sport and gaind a lot of whight.
i became a "couch potato" eating my self to death.

all this "comfort"

5 month after we split suddenly i feeling empty without her

woundering if i did the biggest mistake of my life

i tend to forget why i left her in the first place.......

Well to be honest wiht you... you are what people here will concider AFC.

It's evident from your post that you have weak frame of mind and some insecurities.

The way I see it. If you wish to be strong you'll change yourself and the world around you, if you wish an average life, average wife some babies you'll go with her.

Unless she's really ugly and you keep on letting yourself go... she'll fck other men you can bet on it.

 

[disciple]

From what you wrote, I don't even know which issue I should discuss first. You should start really studying the Don Juan bible and read some good posts on here to change your attitude and perspective on women because right now, you are definitely in the AFC category of guys and that's not good. But hey, we all have been an AFC in regards to some chick at some point in our lives but the important thing is to not remain one. In case you don't know, AFC stands for Average Frustrated Chump. That's a not a good title to have. Start studying and stop crying over these broads and be the strong, proud man that nature intended you to be.

"The strong rule the weak but the wise rule the strong".

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You need to start dating again. Time to take your new physique out on the road and try it out.