"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I Learning And Need Kinda Default Pick Up Line After Hi To Use When I Cant Think Of
- Thread starter huckit
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
h2o
Banned
okay.
well, to be honest, first of all, i think it helps if you don't make your post in all caps.
second of all, most of the members here are in america, i think...right now, most of us are asleep...i would be too, but i was doing some last-minute studying. anyway, what i mean is, be patient, no one is going to respond to your post in light speed.
to answer your question though...i also noticed that you do have a bit of a grammar mistake in your question...therefore, i'm going to ask, is english your first language?
if not, one thing i would recommend is first getting better at speaking the language...simply improve your social skills by talking to every one, every where you go, just start conversations...don't worry about what to say
next, i have to say, forget "pickup" lines. you admit that you are nervous/scared. good. now go out there and get over your fear. you can use lines if you like, but it is actually much better if you don't use lines and just go out there and trip the fvck out from fear, and make a fool of yourself. you have to face your fear, pickup lines will be a crutch, and later you'll start relying on more canned material...learn the right way and don't rely on that stuff.
here's some food for thought though (i won't take credit for the following, it's a rehash of what i remember reading from part of gunwitch method):
i assume you're approaching a girl you find attractive. right? well, i'm also assuming your point for approaching her is because you eventually want to fvck her...am i correct? i thought so. well, in that case, before you fvck her, wouldn't you like to get to know certain things about her? like, maybe her name? so...you could follow-up your "hi" opener with "what's your name?"
then, maybe you could ask some other basic questions, like what she does, if she's in school or not, what's her favorite color, etc. be creative, bounce off of what she says. joke with her. is she receptive to joking? good/bad personality...then get in her personal space, kid around and poke her, see if she's ticklish, etc...you get my point.
just be playful and get to know her...you don't have to put on an act or use lines, just do what you feel you want to do. if you want to straight up ask her for sex right there, do it. :crackup: just do what you feel is right, and with experience you'll get better.
do like atleast 30 approaches to get over just your fear though...after that, and working on your confidence/self-esteem, you should start learning some game.
also check out the dj bible...lots of good articles there.
well, to be honest, first of all, i think it helps if you don't make your post in all caps.
second of all, most of the members here are in america, i think...right now, most of us are asleep...i would be too, but i was doing some last-minute studying. anyway, what i mean is, be patient, no one is going to respond to your post in light speed.
to answer your question though...i also noticed that you do have a bit of a grammar mistake in your question...therefore, i'm going to ask, is english your first language?
if not, one thing i would recommend is first getting better at speaking the language...simply improve your social skills by talking to every one, every where you go, just start conversations...don't worry about what to say
next, i have to say, forget "pickup" lines. you admit that you are nervous/scared. good. now go out there and get over your fear. you can use lines if you like, but it is actually much better if you don't use lines and just go out there and trip the fvck out from fear, and make a fool of yourself. you have to face your fear, pickup lines will be a crutch, and later you'll start relying on more canned material...learn the right way and don't rely on that stuff.
here's some food for thought though (i won't take credit for the following, it's a rehash of what i remember reading from part of gunwitch method):
i assume you're approaching a girl you find attractive. right? well, i'm also assuming your point for approaching her is because you eventually want to fvck her...am i correct? i thought so. well, in that case, before you fvck her, wouldn't you like to get to know certain things about her? like, maybe her name? so...you could follow-up your "hi" opener with "what's your name?"
then, maybe you could ask some other basic questions, like what she does, if she's in school or not, what's her favorite color, etc. be creative, bounce off of what she says. joke with her. is she receptive to joking? good/bad personality...then get in her personal space, kid around and poke her, see if she's ticklish, etc...you get my point.
just be playful and get to know her...you don't have to put on an act or use lines, just do what you feel you want to do. if you want to straight up ask her for sex right there, do it. :crackup: just do what you feel is right, and with experience you'll get better.
do like atleast 30 approaches to get over just your fear though...after that, and working on your confidence/self-esteem, you should start learning some game.
also check out the dj bible...lots of good articles there.
thanks you yes i am german so my english not the best that why it can be hard cause i only move here recently to high school but i try what you teach me and try not care and have fun with it thanksOriginally posted by h2o
okay.
well, to be honest, first of all, i think it helps if you don't make your post in all caps.
second of all, most of the members here are in america, i think...right now, most of us are asleep...i would be too, but i was doing some last-minute studying. anyway, what i mean is, be patient, no one is going to respond to your post in light speed.
to answer your question though...i also noticed that you do have a bit of a grammar mistake in your question...therefore, i'm going to ask, is english your first language?
if not, one thing i would recommend is first getting better at speaking the language...simply improve your social skills by talking to every one, every where you go, just start conversations...don't worry about what to say
next, i have to say, forget "pickup" lines. you admit that you are nervous/scared. good. now go out there and get over your fear. you can use lines if you like, but it is actually much better if you don't use lines and just go out there and trip the fvck out from fear, and make a fool of yourself. you have to face your fear, pickup lines will be a crutch, and later you'll start relying on more canned material...learn the right way and don't rely on that stuff.
here's some food for thought though (i won't take credit for the following, it's a rehash of what i remember reading from part of gunwitch method):
i assume you're approaching a girl you find attractive. right? well, i'm also assuming your point for approaching her is because you eventually want to fvck her...am i correct? i thought so. well, in that case, before you fvck her, wouldn't you like to get to know certain things about her? like, maybe her name? so...you could follow-up your "hi" opener with "what's your name?"
then, maybe you could ask some other basic questions, like what she does, if she's in school or not, what's her favorite color, etc. be creative, bounce off of what she says. joke with her. is she receptive to joking? good/bad personality...then get in her personal space, kid around and poke her, see if she's ticklish, etc...you get my point.
just be playful and get to know her...you don't have to put on an act or use lines, just do what you feel you want to do. if you want to straight up ask her for sex right there, do it. :crackup: just do what you feel is right, and with experience you'll get better.
do like atleast 30 approaches to get over just your fear though...after that, and working on your confidence/self-esteem, you should start learning some game.
also check out the dj bible...lots of good articles there.
also i speak better english than i write so it aint that much of a problem and no excuses just need practice