ight fellas, this girl ive been talking to clearly likes me, she flirts with me alot and hse even told me she likes me alot, like alot, so we started talkin etc... and when we are together its great and flirty at school, but then on the weekends she kind of avoids me,, when i questioned her about this finally she started sayin how she doesnt want to like me because of how all of her relationships have gone in the past, and that if she hangs out with me she knows she is going to want to date me, her last two relationships ended really ruffly and she always gets jealous when she likes guys she says, she cant stand how she feels when she likes a guy just cuase of all the emotional stuff that she goes through, anyway, she still likes me but suggested that we both try to get over each other..........- tomorrow at school should i just act like nothi nreally happened and keep flirtin wiht her cause i know she likes me, and i thought about saying like "i know you want me" into her ear,, or should i act like i dont care at all and flirt wiht other girls,, cause i do like her, and im not bein desperate, she likes me but is not ready to be in a relationship, should i keep flirti nand make her like me more until she gives in,, or what
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"i know you want me"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OHH **** ABORT ABORT!! man I had the exact same thing once, tried to convince her I wouldn't be like the others, she turned out to be a psycho insecure girl and always caused arguments and ****. It's bad news, get out now.
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oh shyt dude thats so funny, i have heard the same stuff about this girl too, but the thing is shes extremely cool, like so chill to hangout with, and reallly hot, so if i just got a hookup outa her id be cool, caus eim talkin with other girls, so with that in mind, whta do yo uthink about my initial question
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I think everything you need to know is in the DJ Bible, So Suave Tips, and other threads. Attitude, baby, attitude!
CompleteControl
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1. LJBF her. Tell her "You were right, we shouldn't allow ourselves to give in to the way we feel about each other." (She won't be able to resist the challenge. Trust me.)requested said:ight fellas, this girl ive been talking to clearly likes me, she flirts with me alot and hse even told me she likes me alot, like alot, so we started talkin etc... and when we are together its great and flirty at school, but then on the weekends she kind of avoids me,, when i questioned her about this finally she started sayin how she doesnt want to like me because of how all of her relationships have gone in the past, and that if she hangs out with me she knows she is going to want to date me, her last two relationships ended really ruffly and she always gets jealous when she likes guys she says, she cant stand how she feels when she likes a guy just cuase of all the emotional stuff that she goes through, anyway, she still likes me but suggested that we both try to get over each other..........- tomorrow at school should i just act like nothi nreally happened and keep flirtin wiht her cause i know she likes me, and i thought about saying like "i know you want me" into her ear,, or should i act like i dont care at all and flirt wiht other girls,, cause i do like her, and im not bein desperate, she likes me but is not ready to be in a relationship, should i keep flirti nand make her like me more until she gives in,, or what
2. Screw her like she has never been screwed before.
3. Don't ever talk to her again.
4. Learn about capitalization, punctuation, spelling, paragraphs and sentence structure.
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i am posting b/c i just went through a similar situation... you should be backing off by all mean. Trust me... thats not going to be worth it. And dump her before she dumps you and she won't be able to stand it and will come back for u. These type of girls are good with mixed signals and beaware not to get emotionally involve because then youa re done... Don't get emotionally involve. dump her