"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I know what I want now"

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is this the most bull**** ass line in dating / women / history lol? I think so.


This is my gripe about women who say they know "know what they want". I "knew what I wanted" when I was young and broke and i that did not stop women from overlooking me for more fun prospects as males. I had to suck that **** up.

But now as a 33 year old woman who has dated, passed up guys, now that you "know what you want" guys are just supposed to line up and kiss your feet . Now you blast guys for doing the same thing that you did when you "didn't know what you want".

The truth is, you knew exactly "what you wanted"; you wanted to have fun. It's not that you now "know what you want".



Any woman who would ever tell me some bull**** like "i know what i want" i would run the other way. thank god my wife never said any hall mark bull **** like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cognitive Dissonance

Confirmation Bias

Hindsight Bias

Common human traits, for both men AND women.

No one is innocent.

For every finger you point, you've got four pointing back at you.

Eyes, moats, planks, etc.
 
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