"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I know what I want now"

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is this the most bull**** ass line in dating / women / history lol? I think so.


This is my gripe about women who say they know "know what they want". I "knew what I wanted" when I was young and broke and i that did not stop women from overlooking me for more fun prospects as males. I had to suck that **** up.

But now as a 33 year old woman who has dated, passed up guys, now that you "know what you want" guys are just supposed to line up and kiss your feet . Now you blast guys for doing the same thing that you did when you "didn't know what you want".

The truth is, you knew exactly "what you wanted"; you wanted to have fun. It's not that you now "know what you want".



Any woman who would ever tell me some bull**** like "i know what i want" i would run the other way. thank god my wife never said any hall mark bull **** like that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cognitive Dissonance

Confirmation Bias

Hindsight Bias

Common human traits, for both men AND women.

No one is innocent.

For every finger you point, you've got four pointing back at you.

Eyes, moats, planks, etc.
 
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