"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know what I want in a girl...

ElStud

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Honestly though, I just want a girl who gets me and understands me. Forget all that trash out there, I'd rather just be myself about the whole damn dating thing and if girls aren't feeling that than f*ck. I know a particular girl like this, you know, she gets me, understands me, can relate to me, but ofcourse I'm not gonna go anywhere with the chick because she's almost freaking married and I've probably been long friend zoned.

But really, I'm honestly just going with forgetting all the trash. I go up to a girl and she's not feeling me than f*ck, I probably don't want to be with that girl anyway. For now on, I'm just looking for a girl who's feeling me and has things of value to her. Really, forget all those stupid girls ejecting out of my sets. They're missing out. I'm a guy with my own life and my own goals. And I'm just looking for a woman out there who can see this.

And overall I just need to find more chicks like her. You know, chicks I don't need to bullsh*t around but I can just talk about whats really important to me around. Seriously though, even though chick was engaged, I could talk to her about relationships, tell her about fights I've been in, discuss religion with her and she understood it all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chinwaggler

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in my whole 18 years of life i've found one girl like that and she's too young for me to concider anything. same sense of humour, similar tastes everythin. lol but patience is a virtue.
 

pingpongz

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chinwaggler said:
in my whole 18 years of life i've found one girl like that and she's too young for me to concider anything. same sense of humour, similar tastes everythin. lol but patience is a virtue.

As long as she can grow hair down below thats all that matters to me :D
 
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