Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"I know we havent met" opener and im stuck

adamw5963

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Ok so i thought i would give that famous opener on a girl on facebook and now im stuck haha.

Me: I know we havent met but I think we should stop seeing each other.
Her: Where did you see me?

Thats it..idk if i should continue with the thing or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Me: I know we havent met but I think we should stop seeing each other.
Her: Where did you see me?
Me: I'm not sure but didn't we go to different schools together?
Her: I don't know?
Me: Well you sure seem unfamiliar.
Her: Huh? What? I'm confused!
Me: I'm just messin' with ya to see if you have a good sense of humour.
Her: Oh I get it now. Haha!
Me: That's good I'm only interested in girls who can make me laugh. Are you a funny person?
Her: Blah, blah, blah (trying to qualify herself to you.)
Me: Well you seem kind of fun but I'm not sure, why don't you give me your number and maybe we can go out some time?

OR if you want to ask her out right there.

Me: (Alternate response) Well you seem kind of fun but I'm going to have to take you out to find out for sure. Why don't you come with me to xyz?
 

adamw5963

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Thanks..i will probably use that...ive been wanting to say something to her for a while so i dont want to screw it up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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