"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I know this is wrong but I did it

Fatal Jay

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So at my job I been working there for six years, I have a married district manager over me. A hot district manager. She has been the district manager for three years but is now being switched to a new district.

During these three years whenever she is around me she flirts with me heavy. On her last day at the job, we are walking outside the work place, and she tells me she doesn't want to leave the district, I told her I agree. I told her will this be the last time me seeing her, she tells me I will see her again.

She tells me to call her anytime, I tell her you sure anytime? She says yes.

Maybe it was me thinking about banging that drove me to it, but I text her today, and told her I have a few questions to ask her.

I told her when she is taking me out to dinner and are we going to hangout since she is no longer my manager.

She tells me she is going to take me out to dinner soon, and then says "you know I'm married right"

I hit back in response and tell her I understand, and that I want her to stay in touch, she replies and tells me she wants me to stay in touch too,

last text I told her she is cute, but not worth being killed over, which in turn got no reply.

First off before you judge me , yes I know I am wrong stepping to a married woman, but what I'm curious about is what you guys think about her replies?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"you know I'm married right"

Guy hears: you're ok with fvcking a married chick, right?

Woman means: You hereby agree that I get to jerk you around for attention without putting out.
 

Fatal Jay

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Yeah, she wants me as an ego booster.

She just text me back with the reply "ummm...ok talk to you later" I'm not going to entertain the chick though, I just had to see what she was talking about, I just wanted to bang her at the end of the day, but it's not worth losing sleep over or my life at that lol
 

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Right on, man!

I was in the same predicament a while back. I could've gotten away with it too. Luckily I came to my senses before I went too far.

Bottom line, who cares what married women think or what their texts mean. Forget this one. That "Fatal" in FatalJay could wind up having a different poignancy than you originally envisioned. If she gets caught, her husband will most likely go after you.
 

Fatal Jay

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Yeah man, I don't want that $hit in my life, she is hot but not worth being killed over bro. I wont die for any type of broad
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's just having some excitement to rub a few out to. Probably has a mad boring life like most married women. I had a hot one once beg for the D but u never did it. I wasn't keen on bangin a mom of 3. She was tight, slim, tall, just bangin. It's very tempting, but I decided on a clear conscience instead.

Heh....I still wonder if that was the best route.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
So at my job I been working there for six years, I have a married district manager over me. A hot district manager. She has been the district manager for three years but is now being switched to a new district.

During these three years whenever she is around me she flirts with me heavy. On her last day at the job, we are walking outside the work place, and she tells me she doesn't want to leave the district, I told her I agree. I told her will this be the last time me seeing her, she tells me I will see her again.

She tells me to call her anytime, I tell her you sure anytime? She says yes.

Maybe it was me thinking about banging that drove me to it, but I text her today, and told her I have a few questions to ask her.

I told her when she is taking me out to dinner and are we going to hangout since she is no longer my manager.

She tells me she is going to take me out to dinner soon, and then says "you know I'm married right"

This response of hers could be taken two different ways...

1. I'm married. You are in friendzone. Don't get any naughty ideas.

2. I'm married and want to F you. I'm just putting it out there that I'm taken so whatever happens will be your fault, and I can F you guilt free.

Without knowing her or having more information, I can't tell which one it was.

I hit back in response and tell her I understand, and that I want her to stay in touch, she replies and tells me she wants me to stay in touch too,

last text I told her she is cute, but not worth being killed over, which in turn got no reply.

First off before you judge me , yes I know I am wrong stepping to a married woman, but what I'm curious about is what you guys think about her replies?
See above.
 

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yeah it was a cunning chess move by her.
 
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