I know of at least two former co-workers who have had sugar daddys or who have been escorts!

[eli77]

One i know from high school and uses her instagram along with other dating sites to hook clients.The other just sugar daddy websites who has a son both nice girls both black.Both over the age of twenty one and born in the eighties .

 

[corrector]

One i know from high school and uses her instagram along with other dating sites to hook clients.The other just sugar daddy websites who has a son both nice girls both black.Both over the age of twenty one and born in the eighties .

Did you hire them? Now is your chance to get laid with them and see if they recognize you.

 

[eli77]

Did you hire them? Now is your chance to get laid with them and see if they recognize you.

no but tempted

 

[Solomon]

When I was in my 20s the sugar daddy thing was around but maybe I was oblivious to it because now with social media it's just so in your face. I remember growing up in the 90s and early 2000s the thought of men paying for sex never came up because if you brought it up you were considered a "Lame" now I hear guys who are younger than me talking about buying coochie(and Onlyfans subscriptions) and it's just wild. Back then we got it out the mud cause we was broke we didn't have $200 to spend on coochie. The concept was so foreign but now seeing social media like Instagram and youtube etc. How prevalent it is, i feel bad for these young guys. At least back in the day you could go to the club/bars practice your game skillset now the only thing you're left with is online dating for the most part

 

[corrector]

When I was in my 20s the sugar daddy thing was around but maybe I was oblivious to it because now with social media it's just so in your face. I remember growing up in the 90s and early 2000s the thought of men paying for sex never came up because if you brought it up you were considered a "Lame" now I hear guys who are younger than me talking about buying coochie(and Onlyfans subscriptions) and it's just wild. Back then we got it out the mud cause we was broke we didn't have $200 to spend on coochie. The concept was so foreign but now seeing social media like Instagram and youtube etc. How prevalent it is, i feel bad for these young guys. At least back in the day you could go to the club/bars practice your game skillset now the only thing you're left with is online dating for the most part

You must live in an alternate universe then. The thought of paying for it is linked to my dad's porn collection and the adult classifieds, which was like a print soft-core porn with numbers on it, and higher speed internet, which came around the 1997 already had escort sites pop up like crazy. It was also known that if you went to Costa Rica or Thialand during that time, people went on these sex tours. There is nothing really new that is happening today that wasn't happening in the late 90s. In fact, in 1992, one of my High School classsmates offered to hook me up with a hor for a bj for $ 40 (was an all boys school). Like this is nothing new what is happening today.

 

[Solomon]

You must live in an alternate universe then. The thought of paying for it is linked to my dad's porn collection and the adult classifieds, which was like a print soft-core porn with numbers on it, and higher speed internet, which came around the 1997 already had escort sites pop up like crazy. It was also known that if you went to Costa Rica or Thialand during that time, people went on these sex tours. There is nothing really new that is happening today that wasn't happening in the late 90s. In fact, in 1992, one of my High School classsmates offered to hook me up with a hor for a bj for $ 40 (was an all boys school). Like this is nothing new what is happening today.

Once again I'm not saying it didn't happen, but I was oblivious to this you gotta understand in the late 90s and early 2000s I was in my teens and early 20s. I was a broke kid and so were my homeboys. The thought of paying for coochie was never something that we discussed. We just rolled up our sleeves and approached girls at the mall, clubs, house parties etc. You also have to remember in the early 2000s it was easier to get laid because of 3rd spaces, which was a real thing and if you had the balls to approach you were already doing better than 50% of men

I don't doubt what you're saying but growing up as a poor kid, the thought of paying for coochie was frowned upon in my circles the convo and thought never came up

 

[corrector]

Once again I'm not saying it didn't happen, but I was oblivious to this you gotta understand in the late 90s and early 2000s I was in my teens and early 20s. I was a broke kid and so were my homeboys. The thought of paying for coochie was never something that we discussed. We just rolled up our sleeves and approached girls at the mall, clubs, house parties etc. You also have to remember in the early 2000s it was easier to get laid because of 3rd spaces, which was a real thing and if you had the balls to approach you were already doing better than 50% of men

I don't doubt what you're saying but growing up as a poor kid, the thought of paying for coochie was frowned upon in my circles the convo and thought never came up

I grew up as a poor kid too....like I said, my dad had porn stashes around. Perhaps, if my dad never took in porn magazines, etc... then I would never have thought about paying for it either. Paying for it was never discussed in any social circle.

I had allot of credit cards at some point though and had access to $ 10+ in credit in the late 90s....and there were times I was flat broke. Sometimes I was tempted to visit an escort and I only had $ 140 (ie literally, no savings, that was all the money I had), and was almost willing to part with all of my money to be with an escort for half an hour. So I understand what it is like to be broke or just near broke and still be horney enough not to care. I used to think, if I run completely out of money, then I'll die a virgin for sure. These scenarios never played out like that in real life in the end.

 

[Solomon]

In the early 2000s there were tons of massage parlours about, and escorts. The medium changed - it was an in person thing not online.

I did partake in my 20s, just because I had a very high drive and didn’t always have options. I remember one lady, very professional and in her mid 30s tell me most clients she has are below 40. Most guys buying it were younger than her. Stands to reason, mega high sechs drive.

in my 40s I’ve had enough poon to not be super curious of new experiences so even if I was single it’s doubtful I’d pay for it again.

In summary it was always happening just not as visible online. Go to my local massage place at 7pm on a Friday and you’d have a whole waiting room of young men

If you seek it out you'll find it, it makes sense
Nowadays these women are "Digitally hoeing" with OF women don't even have to sleep with men anymore to make money. Granted Sugar Babies has also been more prevalent cause now you got websites that cater to this stuff. Heck There are couple of girls that I loosely know whom I suspect may be sugar babies.. One was working at the Gucci store a decade ago making $12 an hour yet she was always talking luxurious trips all over the world she was really a mid mexican chick too, just no way making $12 that you'll be on the top floor of a nice hotel in New York with your own money

 

[Doctor Europeo]

• Discussion of prostitution has nothing to do with the stated purpose of the forum. The use of prostittes required no seduction and therefore is prohibited.

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