I know its bad to hit on the waitress, but, oh well, its practice

[Rhizzle]

So, me and a friend were out tonight watching the Packer game.

Cute little waitress was working our table. Its RARE, we usually get the worst in the place wherever i go.

She is 20, and working and going to school full time studying nuclear medicine.

So, I make some joking comments about how she sat with every other table in the row at some point but not us. (I actually think she did, but I'd forgotten at the time I said it, so I went with it.)

I picked on her a little, complimented in a sarcastic way too.

She busted on me for eating slow at one point and something else.

Well, I said something to her, that we were planning a Super Bowl party and recruiting people and asked what she was doing in 2 weeks.

I KNOW, prob a dumb question for a 20 yr old. Well, she of course says she has no idea, that she doesn't know what she's doing tomorrow.

Then a few minutes later, we're closing out our bill, and I made a comment that my friend had to get home to his wifey. My friend chimed in some comment to confirm.

Then she looks at me with a big smile, and says, "So, what about you, where is your wifey?" It wasn't overly flirty on her part, but seemed somewhat, and she was VERY busy.

I smiled back and told her that I hadn't met her yet. I maybe could have been funnier here, but I'd already been funny, and was still being funny, so it wasn't that big a deal. She commented more than once about how we were her most fun table or whatever all night, etc etc.

So, I let it go at that point. Then later, she's back by a few times, and I again, say, so I'm gonna let you know about the party, but I need your number to contact you.

She says, how about i give you my email address. She said she checks it all the time so that was a good way to reach her.

So, I'm not sure if she was just being nice, or blowing me off, or not.
Maybe her question about my "wifey" was an "inquiry" on her part more than the sum of the question itself.

Thing is, I may not even be having a superbowl party. Several of my "people" are gonna be out of town that day.

So, how do I handle this to maximize potential??

Any thoughts?

 

[Interceptor]

Rhiz, take the email and run with it. Shes not blowing you off as far as you can tell.

If you're not having a pary offer to meet her at some nice place where the game is being shown.
Look for possible venues starting now, and plan the get together with her.

Remember to realize it's not a "date".
You're getting together to hang out and watch the game and have fun.




BTW, what are you thoughts on my PMs? Did you read them?

 

[tsmith2334]

Tricky situation and I'm not sure if I would bother. But also bear in my mind I let a lot of good opportunities slip by.

Anyway, I think it's good she asked about your "wifey". Nice little potential there. Most of the time when a girl asks me how I'm doing with the ladies I take it as a sign of interest.

However, the e-mail thing, would dissapoint me. Using that old SoSuave cliche, she probably would have given her cell phone number to "Tom Cruise". E-mails often get ignored.

And, even if she wants to come to party, I assume there would be drinking there. Whether or not you want to drink with a 20-year old is your call, but the worrywart in me says not to do it.

 

[Rhizzle]

Interceptor, dude, In fact, I have read your PMs twice to really take them all in.

I meant to reply back to you this weekend and time got away from me.

I will do that ASAP cause I have a tad more to converse on those topics.

Tthose PMs hold a LOT of great information that I HAVE to instill inside me.

On THIS girl, well, she said she is working two jobs, and going to school full time, so reality is, she may be working at that very place that very night in two weeks.

Like I mentioned, she said she didn't know what she was doing tomorrow, much less in two weeks.

I'm thinking maybe I should just email a couple times and ask her out on her next day off. Remember, being a server, she'd only know her nights off probably 6 days ahead at best.

Also, u confused me. "nice" places don't show games. lol

 

[DonJuan11]

So, me and a friend were out tonight watching the Packer game.

Cute little waitress was working our table. Its RARE, we usually get the worst in the place wherever i go.

She is 20, and working and going to school full time studying nuclear medicine.

So, I make some joking comments about how she sat with every other table in the row at some point but not us. (I actually think she did, but I'd forgotten at the time I said it, so I went with it.)

I picked on her a little, complimented in a sarcastic way too.

She busted on me for eating slow at one point and something else.

Well, I said something to her, that we were planning a Super Bowl party and recruiting people and asked what she was doing in 2 weeks.

I KNOW, prob a dumb question for a 20 yr old. Well, she of course says she has no idea, that she doesn't know what she's doing tomorrow.

Then a few minutes later, we're closing out our bill, and I made a comment that my friend had to get home to his wifey. My friend chimed in some comment to confirm.

Then she looks at me with a big smile, and says, "So, what about you, where is your wifey?" It wasn't overly flirty on her part, but seemed somewhat, and she was VERY busy.

I smiled back and told her that I hadn't met her yet. I maybe could have been funnier here, but I'd already been funny, and was still being funny, so it wasn't that big a deal. She commented more than once about how we were her most fun table or whatever all night, etc etc.

So, I let it go at that point. Then later, she's back by a few times, and I again, say, so I'm gonna let you know about the party, but I need your number to contact you.

She says, how about i give you my email address. She said she checks it all the time so that was a good way to reach her.

So, I'm not sure if she was just being nice, or blowing me off, or not.
Maybe her question about my "wifey" was an "inquiry" on her part more than the sum of the question itself.

Thing is, I may not even be having a superbowl party. Several of my "people" are gonna be out of town that day.

So, how do I handle this to maximize potential??

Any thoughts?

Dude, NEVER hit on waitresses. They are there to make a buck and a living, not to be seduced by guys. I never hit on bartenders or waitresses because I know they don't want to be hit on. Think about it: They have to talk to you, they have to be nice to you, you always know where they are and are coming back, and they can't tell you where to go until you leave. I can't tell you how many times I've heard someone say "she was flirty with me, I think she really liked me" but it's always a ruse.

Why don't you have a superbowl party without the several "people" and why is "people" in quotation marks? Are these "people" drug dealers or Pimps?

 

[Rhizzle]

Hey, practice is practice in my opinion.

Besides, I kinda thought the "Where is your wifey" comment might have been an inquiry on her part.

 

[Señor Fingers]

She is definitely interested, don't torture yourself with questioning. What you should be thinking about is your next move. Maybe set up a SuperBowl party for two

Ok maybe thats a lot of pressure. You can invite your friend and wifey, get the double-date dynamic going.

Give her a little reminder email in the next couple of days so she doesnt forget about you.. just say that it was nice to meet her and use a little callback humor so she remembers why she liked you and leave it at that.

If you really made an impression, she will hit you back and you can hammer out the plans. (Make sure you have plans!)

BTW: I've dated waitresses and they were among my easiest conquests. All you gotta do is be as ladback as possible, cause their jobs are really stressful. Bust out some quality wine, give em a good massage, whisper sweet nothings in their ear and they melt like butter.

 

[Rhizzle]

Fingers, I tried to reply back to you but your PM box is full.

 

[AFC Savior]

the problem is that he is an ugly dude with creepy tendencies trying to pick up a cute waitress........

RHizzle, go work on yourself first, you cant have unrealistica expectations and expect cute girls to be interested in you if you look all creepy and ugly like u did in that pic you showed us a few weeks ago

get serious man, WORK ON YOUR SELF

gym, clothes, haircut, smile, teeth, you need to completely change your appearance before you can succeed with cuties

 

[Rhizzle]

Dude, stay out of my posts please.

You're a negative ass.

I don't look creepy, and I got my **** in order, and those pictures were from like 3 months ago.

 

[AFC Savior]

if u dont like to hear the truth and wanna be jerked off mentally then go for it

u'll never improve that way

do you know how I improved?? when my best friend told me that im FAT and need to drop 40lbs asap............would you like me to show u a before and after picture?