I know I'm stupid, but i need advice

[bobneedshelp]

Ok, here's the deal. I call this girl up today and ask her to go to a barbeque with me and my friends. She tells me she has to ask her mom and to call her back on her cell phone 15-20 minutes later. So i'm like ok whatever. Well i call the cell phone and her mom answers. She tells me that the girl is not there, so i decided what the hey i'm gonna call her house again to see what's going on. Well somebody answers the phone and i don't know who they are. All i know is they are not her. Then some other girl gets on the phone and tells me she is not there, but the werid thing is i can hear her in the background telling her friend or whoever this girl is. Then like 5 minutes later i get a call from the same girl and she is asking if i want to leave a certified memo or some **** like this and told me she would be home at 1:30. So i'm just like it's me and tell her about the barbeque today. That's about all. I'm a little confused as of what to do. I don't know how to handle this situation. Well you advice is well needed and apreciated.

Thanks

 

[Bjon]

I really don't know what to tell you. I think that you are falling into her little game or whatever. She is totally messing with you. Don't take that. You are falling into a trap. That's about all i could come up with so hope it helps.

 

[die4me]

It sounds as if her friends are over and she is too busy to have a barbeque. Don't sweat on it, but she couldn't tell you herself? Hate *****es like that.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Why would you ring that many times? I know you probably don't have anything better to do, but is that the kind of image you want to give out about yourslef to this girl? I don't think so. If she said ring back in 15 mins to confirm, you should have left it and rang back later on that night or somethin and said you were busy and couldn't ring her back.


Now she thinks :

A - that you have no life
B - you will jump when she says jump
C - She is the only girl in your life
D - you are playing right into her game
E - you are having a barbecue.



As a DJ, you only want her to think E. Throw her off. DON'T call her again, and let HER interest grow - as opposed to yours. Get other girls numbers and invite them to your social outings in case chicks like this want to mess you around again.

 

[kevbo]

Originally posted by Bjon
I really don't know what to tell you. I think that you are falling into her little game or whatever. She is totally messing with you. Don't take that. You are falling into a trap. That's about all i could come up with so hope it helps.

i think you're right bjon! lol.