"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know I posted about being more positive...

ItsOnNow

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And it is starting to work. But there are things still bugging me. The 3 or 4 main things are : A) This sense of lost time,for many reasons. I'll post more,I gotta go to bed.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MikeYikes122

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Yo dude, fvck lost time. It's just another excuse you're trying to make for not improving.

If you approach a chick and you're game is sick enough, the girl is not going to care how you are in bed. Worst comes to worst, you hook up with a girl and you get exploited as a complete novice. If that happens, you just blame it on being drunk.

Quit making excuses man!!! Improve the dude who you are and get it out in the field!!
 
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