"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know i need to do it but not sure how to...

Jmasta23

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How is it going everyone? Well I just wanted a little advice..i met this girl a few weeks ago, I've seen her around campus on different occassions but never talked to her, well she added me as a friend in facebook, we interchanged a few messages a few times, but never made a huge deal out of it. Well about a week and a half ago I saw her at a party and started talking to her, there was a good vibe, and a few days later I asked her to lunch and everything went really well, good chem, good conversation, etc..the thing is that the school year is over,she went home for the summer and Im staying on campus..So the big question is how should I keep pursuing?? knowing that it is gonna be more difficult to see her, due to the fact that she is out of town(by the way its like an hour away from where she lives and where im staying)....should I text her every once in a while, call her, or just set up another date?? What would you guys do..?? I know i need to keep pursuing, But at the same time I dont wanna wait too long and kind of **** it up...lol..
thanks..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Prodigy746

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You already waited too long IMO. Ask her out another date and kiss close or you losti t.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
You already waited too long IMO. Ask her out another date and kiss close or you losti t.
Well its been only a few days since i last talked to her, but im definitely asking her out again...thanks
 

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Well, this is my first day here, so take what I say with a LARGE grain of salt. I read their was this guy called Dave M. or something who does somestuff for internet dating. I never read to much of his junk, as It's not my scene. But I know he does tell how to keep conversations online good. So you might want to look him up. (Maybe to help out your facebook junk with her. I dunno just shooting ideas.)

But the kiss close thing is right. I'm not too sucessful, but it doesn't take a genius to know if you don't keep things moving you F the hell up.
 

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So A little update on the Thread...So I asked the girl out for a Second date, we went to club/bar and everything went well at the beginning of the night until a group of her friends showed up and everything went downhill from there...She didnt wanna dance with me, or do anything but yet she danced with some other dudes...You can just imagine what was going through my head..I was sooooo F***** Pissed its not even funny..at the end of the night I kinda of just dropped her at her house and gave her the cold shoulder nothing childish in my part but I mean WTF!!! you know how am I suppose to react...Im still so Freaking mad, Such a waste of time and money..haha...Im just gonna drop this B**** without thinking about it..What would you guys do in my situation...?? Freeze her for a while?, wait until she makes contact? or just next?? Any suggestions...
Ps: I kinda just wanted to let it out you know, I am really frustrated..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jmasta23 said:
So A little update on the Thread...So I asked the girl out for a Second date, we went to club/bar and everything went well at the beginning of the night until a group of her friends showed up and everything went downhill from there...She didnt wanna dance with me, or do anything but yet she danced with some other dudes...You can just imagine what was going through my head..I was sooooo F***** Pissed its not even funny..at the end of the night I kinda of just dropped her at her house and gave her the cold shoulder nothing childish in my part but I mean WTF!!! you know how am I suppose to react...Im still so Freaking mad, Such a waste of time and money..haha...Im just gonna drop this B**** without thinking about it..What would you guys do in my situation...?? Freeze her for a while?, wait until she makes contact? or just next?? Any suggestions...
Ps: I kinda just wanted to let it out you know, I am really frustrated..
No contact. If you don't hear from her in 2 months, delete the #.
 
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