"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know i need to do it but not sure how to...

Jmasta23

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How is it going everyone? Well I just wanted a little advice..i met this girl a few weeks ago, I've seen her around campus on different occassions but never talked to her, well she added me as a friend in facebook, we interchanged a few messages a few times, but never made a huge deal out of it. Well about a week and a half ago I saw her at a party and started talking to her, there was a good vibe, and a few days later I asked her to lunch and everything went really well, good chem, good conversation, etc..the thing is that the school year is over,she went home for the summer and Im staying on campus..So the big question is how should I keep pursuing?? knowing that it is gonna be more difficult to see her, due to the fact that she is out of town(by the way its like an hour away from where she lives and where im staying)....should I text her every once in a while, call her, or just set up another date?? What would you guys do..?? I know i need to keep pursuing, But at the same time I dont wanna wait too long and kind of **** it up...lol..
thanks..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prodigy746

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You already waited too long IMO. Ask her out another date and kiss close or you losti t.
 

Jmasta23

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Prodigy746 said:
You already waited too long IMO. Ask her out another date and kiss close or you losti t.
Well its been only a few days since i last talked to her, but im definitely asking her out again...thanks
 

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Well, this is my first day here, so take what I say with a LARGE grain of salt. I read their was this guy called Dave M. or something who does somestuff for internet dating. I never read to much of his junk, as It's not my scene. But I know he does tell how to keep conversations online good. So you might want to look him up. (Maybe to help out your facebook junk with her. I dunno just shooting ideas.)

But the kiss close thing is right. I'm not too sucessful, but it doesn't take a genius to know if you don't keep things moving you F the hell up.
 

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So A little update on the Thread...So I asked the girl out for a Second date, we went to club/bar and everything went well at the beginning of the night until a group of her friends showed up and everything went downhill from there...She didnt wanna dance with me, or do anything but yet she danced with some other dudes...You can just imagine what was going through my head..I was sooooo F***** Pissed its not even funny..at the end of the night I kinda of just dropped her at her house and gave her the cold shoulder nothing childish in my part but I mean WTF!!! you know how am I suppose to react...Im still so Freaking mad, Such a waste of time and money..haha...Im just gonna drop this B**** without thinking about it..What would you guys do in my situation...?? Freeze her for a while?, wait until she makes contact? or just next?? Any suggestions...
Ps: I kinda just wanted to let it out you know, I am really frustrated..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ARrocket

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Jmasta23 said:
So A little update on the Thread...So I asked the girl out for a Second date, we went to club/bar and everything went well at the beginning of the night until a group of her friends showed up and everything went downhill from there...She didnt wanna dance with me, or do anything but yet she danced with some other dudes...You can just imagine what was going through my head..I was sooooo F***** Pissed its not even funny..at the end of the night I kinda of just dropped her at her house and gave her the cold shoulder nothing childish in my part but I mean WTF!!! you know how am I suppose to react...Im still so Freaking mad, Such a waste of time and money..haha...Im just gonna drop this B**** without thinking about it..What would you guys do in my situation...?? Freeze her for a while?, wait until she makes contact? or just next?? Any suggestions...
Ps: I kinda just wanted to let it out you know, I am really frustrated..
No contact. If you don't hear from her in 2 months, delete the #.
 
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