"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i know i know i should know this but...

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ok this is a dj site with dj stuff and dj tips about dj situations. right. i should know this, but i cant tell if this girl likes me or not.

every day in class she looks at me at least one or two times, maybe more. ive gotten smiles, but its when someone cracks a joke and everyone is laughing but then she looks straight at me and shes got this great big smile on her face with teeth and all. i guess shes not really laughing though.

sometimes she will look at me for a second and then quickly look away as i make eye contact and then do it again a minute later, and sometimes she'll hold eye contact for a while and i keep it till she moves her eyes onto something else like the floor or her shoulder or something.

normally i would know by now, but her friends are kind of giving me hints that she doesnt like me. one of her friends told me when i asked her whats the latest gossip (sarcastically), that she had some news that would make me cry. i dont think i would cry, but i know what she meant considering she knows i like her friend.

cmon fellow djs help me out. thx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is where a lot of guys usually go wrong. Talk to the GIRL, her friends don't know shyt. Even if she's not that interested in you right now, you'll really impress her if you friggin' go up and ask her out, and give her a night to remember. :D I'm not gonna spat out any lines you might wanna use when you approach, you know the deal. Just relax, and be confident. Just like you're talking to one of your friends, and you'll be okay. I'm sure you didn't want a lesson on confidence though. From the sounds of it, it seems like this girl sees you as some eye candy. Go for it man.
 
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all this eye contact and smiling, shes digging you! her friends are just a bunch of jelous bi*ches that are PMS'ing.
 
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i hope so

thx

i also hope that you two arent the only ones with an opinion on this cough
 
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now i hear she likes this guy in college and hes home for the summer

the guy is in college hes got three years on her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just make your freiking move.

Hesitation is like masterbation in then end your just screwing yourself.
 
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