I know i got you pregnant but

[bigwuz]

Ok so my ex who is currently pregnant tells me it's not going to work. She's done trying and that she didn't want anything from me. So I text her saying I want to work it out an blah blah no texts nothing! so yesterday she texts me am I still gonna help with the baby shower. I didn't text back she then goes on to say I'm not reliable and that she will do it her self I still don't text back.I told her I would give her 200 before when we were good an now I feel I'm being used. I still haven't replied to her,Ghandi said only speak if it improves on the silence. Nothing I do or say will be good enough so why try?what would you guys do?
P.s she works at Wendy and I'm a truck driver and she already has a child from another relationship

 

[nmartinez12443]

God help you. This is pretty much a lost cause. I'd go no contact and tell her prior that I will pay the child support and only do what I am legally obligated to do. She wants nothing to do with you like the man before you and your a glorified sperm doner.

 

[logicallefty]

If you think you might want joint or full custody of the child, start building your case NOW. Start gathering any evidence you can get in your favor, and anything against her. Nothing is off limits, and nothing is too insignificant. And that would include establishing that she already has another kid with a man she is not with, and never married to I assume?

Also, even if you know it is yours demand a paternity test. Just to p!ss her off. And who knows maybe you will get lucky.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Any money you give her now counts for nothing.

Wait until the kid is born, get the paternity test, and then they'll take 25% of your pay check and give you the kid on weekends to watch while she goes out on dates.

 

[bigwuz]

thanks for all the advice. im going no contact but i didnt tell her the reason Her other baby daddy is complety out the picture.