I Know How Men Think

[Chosen1]

You guys ever heard that phrase? I heard a chick saying that the other day. Then I stated to think why guys can't know what women think. I think I know women and not just women but people well enough to know what they will say do or react.

I don't think it is that you ladies know what men think. I think it is the fact that you date men with the same Sh!tty characteristics. 1. Not every man wants sex with you 2. You can't get men to do whatever you want all the time.

So next time you think you know what a guy is thinking pick up some lottery tickets because that would effectively make you psychic BOOYAAAH

 

[spider_007]

when a woman saiz that, most of the time she repeats what she saw on TV.....typical media crap description of men and how they think......sometimes not even close to reality.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

its funny, cuz theres some belief around that women have some "intuition" and are somehow smarter, wittier, more perceptive etc than men just cuz they are women

thing is, men are smart enough and are into OUR OWN LIVES enough to not constantly announce that we know what women are thinking. I think women do that just to try to poke around in other ppls lives

 

[Chosen1]

its funny, cuz theres some belief around that women have some "intuition" and are somehow smarter, wittier, more perceptive etc than men just cuz they are women

thing is, men are smart enough and are into OUR OWN LIVES enough to not constantly announce that we know what women are thinking. I think women do that just to try to poke around in other ppls lives

Intution my black @ss. I'm not disagreeing with you I just wanted to write that. I don't know what it is with these chicks where they actually think they can read your mind. Some of it is just negative "all men want is sex". If a women want to know what men think all they have to do is ask because unlike them we don't blow sh!t out our @ss.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...
I don't think it is that you ladies know what men think. I think it is the fact that you date men with the same Sh!tty characteristics...

Now here's a man that knows women!

It's funny to watch people who profess to know so much but keep making the same mistakes.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Intution my black @ss. I'm not disagreeing with you I just wanted to write that. I don't know what it is with these chicks where they actually think they can read your mind. Some of it is just negative "all men want is sex". If a women want to know what men think all they have to do is ask because unlike them we don't blow sh!t out our @ss.

the irony is, because they have that belief that "they know how men think" and "all men just want sex", they are blind (and will always be blind) to how men REALLY think, and just how complicated we are.

so much for their 'intuition'

 

[Charm&Style]

:yes:

 

[everywomanshero]

This isn't really a problem. Most women watch the same TV series & types of movies, they tend to read similar novels--sure some will be vampire romance while other's will be COSMO, but the basic types of underlying themes aren't going to be that different. Then they all talk and watch each other's actions and further become similar. By the time they start to have their own ideas, they are already integrated into a society that values consistency and a identity that has been assigned to them.

Basically, I am not suggesting that all women are the same, but they tend to be hearing a lot of the same mantras on a daily basis. As a result of this, most women tend to respond to similar things in reasonably similar ways. In a lot of ways, it is the same for guys, of course. Although the surface variables may chance dramatically, the basic set of underlying principles are largely the same for any given encounter.

Often I find women bring up gender stuff as a good way for guys to tease and challange them, it can be a fun topic. Beyond that, these preconceived notions help use predictably know how to seduce women in a way that works well.

 

[PRMoon]

Many women like to think they understand how men think and honestly that's a good thing. Coming to a difinitavely rash conclusion like that is a sign of weakness and that information can be used advantageously by a skilled DJ. You can effectivly predict their reactions and better understand their reasoning (and i use the term lightly) becaue they've pretty much laid out their mindset from the get go.

This effectively make you unpredictable because you're able to go left after faking right. It's one of the oldest and most effective strategies in the book, and it's still one of the most effective. We all have thought patterns and individual preconceptions of the world. I find it arrogant that some people choose to tip their hands in this card game as if they are untouchable in the ways of life.

 

[Poll]

It's not that hard to know what men think. If the girl answers with "sex", she's already 90% correct, the other 10% is "will she ever shutup?".

 

[00Kevin]

Well it isn't hard to figure out.
Men are either Angry, hungry, sleepy, or horney.

Thats why women need to be

submissive, cook, quiet, and dirty.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

This is an example of a feminine operative social convention.

Selection Position Insurance
Examples:
Women are ‘allowed’ to understand men, but women must necessarily ALWAYS be a mystery to men.

Getting “lucky” with a woman when referring to sex.

Selection position insuring methodologies revolve around fomenting the Scarcity Mentality in men. If the value can be inflated, the value can be increased, thus ensuring a controlling frame. This convention holds fast to the Feminine Mystique or Female Intuition mythology. So long as women remain 'uknowable' there becomes less motivation to try to understand them. In fact this convention actively discourages any attempt to understand the feminine to the point that men have adopted it and parot it back without being cognizant of it. This is exactly the reason why guys will ridicule men seeking understanding of women when they search it out in "how to get girls" books or DVDs, or on the internet. It's also why men who profess to 'know' how women operate are ridiculed; it's a perfect paradox - to attempt to understand the feminine OR to profess to know the feminine is not only laughable, but it places a man into the Shallow Effect in either case.

 

[ExploringOne]

Now here's a man that knows women!

It's funny to watch people who profess to know so much but keep making the same mistakes.

Sometimes I go out to lounges and bars for the express purpose of watching people interact. Sometimes i start cracking up... and this has gotten me into some unique situations.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

An excellent point, Rollo.

its a double-bind. keeping us in a "prison of shame".

 

[Chosen1]

I make it a point to not only understand women but people in general. I'm like a paradox. On one had I don't care what happens to you but on the other I want to know your life story. I learned a lot of what I know about women by watching the sh!tty men my mom and sister and their friends date. I've decide

1. I won't settle for anyone that is below me (not that I'm perfect)

2. Women are simpler then we think.

I mean think about it why would a women that is a bombshell date a guy that uses her because she has a kid for tax purposes. Or let a man live with her who won't work. Even beautiful women are susceptile to this. So this proves to me that women are simple creatures. Now I just need approval or disapproval from the few chicks that roam these boards.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sometimes I go out to lounges and bars for the express purpose of watching people interact. Sometimes i start cracking up... and this has gotten me into some unique situations.

Even get together in a club with a group of women and play "Fortune Teller" where you watch people and try to predict what they are going to do? It can range from anything as silly as someone incessively scratching their butt to how many times in a given period a guy gets turned down after asking women to dance. Hey, women play this game together all the time, why not join in on their fun?

 

[captn caveman]

Women are ‘allowed’ to understand men, but women must necessarily ALWAYS be a mystery to men.

Getting “lucky” with a woman when referring to sex.

I remember the countless looks on womens faces when I said,

"..and then there are men who don't call getting laid "getting lucky".. and these men are the ones you all are dripping for, but detest them as long as you can't get into their pants..."

Just a simple switch in your head talking to friends: instead of, "I got lucky last night", saying "took her home", lifts your head up and makes you see a different world.

About the original post,

Women know what men want.

It is sex.

What they don't want to see is :

Men want sex with attractive good looking women. Being a brainless baloon head just lowers the times a man wants to see her in a specific time frame. That's all.

We all want to bang those attractive women, but want nothing more.
(Nothing more unless she has proven herself - ideal case)

THIS MAKES THEM VALUELESS!!

And they know it, and they refuse to acknowledge it.

that is why they attack: "I know what men think"

To protect their fragile soul.

My answer is usually, "I am happy I don't know what women think. Women would either be boring or disgusting."

Upon this they don't freak out, there is just the calmness of a said truth.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

2. Women are simpler then we think.

Print this out and tape it to your refrigerator. Only I'd re-word it "Women are simpler than we are led to believe." Women are emminently knowable and understandable. It's the guys who internalize the 'feminine mystique' who've surrendered.