"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Kissed Dating Goodbye

jmeh13

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About a year ago a friend gave me a book called "I kissed dating Goodbye"

It was given to me in my dating prime. I had been going out with multiple women in a week. I picked up the book and read half way through it. It was truly an incredible book. Im not a die hard religous person but the book is mainly about God.

It tells of Joshua Harri's dating experiences and basically tells how he realized that by dating multiple women he was taking a piece of them by doing this. He felt that deep down inside he knew if the girl was right for him or not. He would ask himself can i really live without this girl and if the answer was yes then why date her and lead her on. I read this book for like a week but i feel like it has messed me up bad!

Every time I'm with a girl i know that i could never love this girl and why lead her on. I feel like **** whenever Im with a girl on a date because i know that if i didn't see this girl tomorrow it wouldn't phase me. Im usually just being friends with the girls because i don't like to lead them on but then whenever i party with one of them we end up hooking up which is fun but....

I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of fun. But because the book, i feel like its just wrong in ways. I also feel that if you don't date then how will you determine the qualities that you really want in a women.

i need some positive thing that come from dating because i want a girlfriend bad but i cant seem to make it happen because i know that really nothing could come from it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrinceBeavis

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Sounds like a pretty fruity book. And that's coming from me, a total (sort of recovering) AFC.
 

aliasguy

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"taking a piece of them"?

Hilarious, ridiculous, and a funny double-entendre, all at the same time.

Good grief, what a bunch of sniveling CR*P.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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