"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I kissed a girl and I liked it

exile663dfx

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Damn you guys are really uptight, let's play a game so ease the tension, idc how lame this is. :cheer:


Game starts now.


Say something that's on your mind about the person that posted above you, and the people before them.

Rules:

- NO ARGUING ACCEPT THE OPINION AND MOVE ON.
- Not to make this thread a clusterfvck, refresh the page a couple of times before you post so we dont double post about the person.
- You are allowed to post once, but you can edit your post as many times.

Oh god...
GO


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Obviously you are playing the game and your 1002'nd post PrettyBoyAJ shows who has more free time, and obviously since 2010 you haven't improved on a self-improvement forum.

And European DJ does not follow rules. :p
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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^ you must have a lot of free time to want to play a game on a self-improvement forum.
 

European-DJ

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I Guess this topic is for the Daily 10 posts...

An European In the States would be a natural ;)!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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European-DJ said:
I Guess this topic is for the Daily 10 posts...

An European In the States would be a natural ;)!
Maybe I'm wrong but aren't you the guy who always makes how does my face look threads, and is my height too short threads?
 

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Anyone who knows anything about any posters on this site is on here for the wrong reasons, it's self improvement not a judging site, that being said I bet the next moron to post will say something about me being a bully in bars lol.
 

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Actually I just thought of Poonani Maker
 

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ArcBound said:
Maybe I'm wrong but aren't you the guy who always makes how does my face look threads, and is my height too short threads?
I have a major issue with my height, that is correct'
 
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