"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I kinda dodged Friend zone and here's how...

DonJuanit0

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I met this girl that some friends of mine brought to our company and we came close telling about EVERYTHING, we were each others emotional tampon... I knew that it was wrong if I wanted to have any chance with this girl, anyway, at some point we had a discussion with my friends and her, if there can be friendship between a woman and a man! I strongly believe that there is no such thing and everyone was trying to convince me that I am wrong! The point to this discussion was to make clear that I don't see her as a friend of mine despite the things we talk about! So, after 3 months of knowing each other, she asked me, if you say that there is no friendship between a man and a woman, then what is happening between me and you? I told her that we are just to people who DO like each other and for some strange reasons we've decided to hide those feelings! So we are not actual friends! Friends don't like each other! After this discussion things became a bit more personal between us and she came over my place 2-3 times for some movies! I knew she liked me too, she wouldn't come and spend 3-4 hours with me just for some movies! She could do anything! The third time she came we made out and the day after we facked! I told her that I was right about the friendship matter, she laughed and agreed!


The thing is that I had made my self clear to her from the beggining! I don't have, don't want to, don't think it's possible to have female friends! No matter what we discussed, she KNEW that I wasn't her friend! I was someone who would talk to her about everything but also liked her!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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