"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I kill it with blondes and redheads but struggle with dark haired girls, is this why?

drakeisfire

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So over the years, I notice that blondes (especially if natural) and especially redheads ****ing love me. I say this because I can pull hotties from this demographic and get their attention without that many issues. Even on dating apps, I match with a hot blonde or a hot ginger every now and then. I do alright with minority women too, black and Asian girls love me.

Now I struggle a lot with dark haired white women and not sure if it is a thing in my area but I notice a lot of them go for blond haired Scandinavian looking dudes or really pale dudes. If they are tanned or ethnic looking like Mediterranean or something, I struggle like no tomorrow.

I even notice it with interracial dating, I see a lot of Nordic looking and blonde girls going for minorities of all types, even seen them with Asians and Indians these days. I am talking about the girls being hot here too.

Very rarely do I see a dark haired white girl that looks good going for a minority, never if she is Mediterranean looking.

Is it because dark haired white girls or white women who are darker looking want to compensate for not looking white enough so they'll take a trollish looking blond guy over a Cristiano Ronaldo lookalike?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tilex

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Go visit South America.
It will change your perception about brunettes.

That's an entire continent to explore.
You can thank me later.
 

Masculinity

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You're overthinking, OP.
 
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