"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I keep thinking that women are the ones who initiate sex

verysuave

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For some reason, im getting into this mindset that women are the ones who initiate sex, initiate the convo, initiate everything.. as if i'm starting to get lazy. Anyone else feeling like this?

The chicks you have been with, would you say it was the chick who initiated the sex talk, sexual innuendo, sex related things?

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I know, you have to ask her out, but when it comes right down to it, lets say, you are watching a movie or alone in your car with her, it seems the girl is the one who starts making the move.

I'm always hearing, "dude, we were watching a movie lastnight and she just started rubbing my legs and grabbing my **ck"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aldaris

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i get a lot of interest from chicks. i credit my height and massive shoulders.
 

NoMoreTapDancing

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Yes because women are actually several times more sexual that guys.
It's a myth that they are sweet and timid and sugar and spice etc.
Girls usually initiate everything in the game, women do the choosing so to speak. They just try to find a way of doing it so that you feel like you're doing the initiating.
 
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