Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I keep seeing so many rules broken

SirFratserlot

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My friends get girls and they don't follow anything on this site. They only spin 1 plate, text her everyday, buy her stuff, and etc. I don't get it because I'm better looking and more in shape than them and I can't manage to get shvt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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plate's_empty

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well, you sound like a troll on here. so if you sound like one in real life than might need to work on your communication skills.
 

TheCWord

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It's because of your personality. That you would speak negatively about your friends in favor of your own ego, even if it is to a forum full of strangers, is an indicator that you have some inner flaws and it is most likely centered around ego.

Don't worry about what other people are doing. And if you want good friendships, keep any negative gossip or even negative thinking about them to a minimum. You probably wouldn't want them posting on a forum about how they have better personalities than you (which, judging by the fact that they are uglier than you, not as fit as you, break all those rules and still manage to get girls... is probably true).

EDIT: plate beat me to it.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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trollolololo

Only in eastern europe can you break all the rules and have a hope. Oh and east asia if you are a tall white guy.
 

PapiChulo

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ha, I would like to see how these guys get women with their "personalities". Grass is always greener on the other side. Also there are things that you may not know about your friends and their women. People lie all the time and there is a reason for everything and sometimes it is the most trivial one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VladPatton

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Just cause they walk hand in hand on the street, go to the movies together, and tell you they bang doesn't mean their balls are not in the gf's purse. You don't know how many jambones their gf's are suckin on the side. They could be getting plowed by other dudes and your buddies are clueless, or afraid to pry and fück things up.

Like PapiChulo said, the grass is always greener on the other side.
 

floydb25

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Too many variables and possibilities. Don't ever assume, judge, or compare with other people, and their situations. Just do you, and stop believing to better and more deserving than others. The women obviously don't view it that way.

Don't be blinded by assumptions, or get involved in ego-jealousy competitions.
 

PlayHer Man

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What most men don't get is that women only care about what a man can do for them. THAT IS IT.

Just like all a man really cares about is that a woman is hot and nice. Nothing else about her really matters. Likewise.. how a man can improve a woman's life is all a woman cares about. All "game" really is in the end is convincing a woman you can improve her life in some way.. status, money, great sex, marriage, attention, affection, favors, connections, resources, protection, etc. :)
 
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