"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i keep getting oneitis

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i keep getting oneitis when i realsie a hot-decent looking girl likes me. how do i control this before it controls me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are an absolute surplus of posts dedicated to one-itis.

Take matters into your own hands and do a simple search.
 
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yea but its time and time again a decent girl likes me and i get total oneitis and it ends up being nothing. something has to be done cuz ive gone through thtat enough
 
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Maybe you should talk to others girls when your oneitis is acting up. Flirt as much as you can, then the value of the girl who you had a oneitis for will gradually decrease.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Messarger said:
Maybe you should talk to others girls when your oneitis is acting up. Flirt as much as you can, then the value of the girl who you had a oneitis for will gradually decrease.
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thats what ive been saying bbx
 
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