"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I keep getting in trouble with cops

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well, after being a perfectly behaved child my whole life, i have been getting in trouble a lot lately. 1st time i drank way to much so my friend called the ambulance to help me but they didnt do ****. luckily the police didnt charge me with anything. 2nd time i had the phatest party at my house and was real close to getting thrown in juvenile hall but they let me go cuz i wasnt breaking any rules. 3rd time i was with people who were smoking and they were caught. i wasnt smokinng but they called my parents and i was let go. so everytime i was stopped by the police i didnt get in trouble. but last night i was charged with curfew and glass at the beach. which is ****ing bull **** considering i am practically 18, it was 1130, and glass is a ****ing rediculous thing to be charged with.

my dad is getting really pissed. he tells me he wants me to move out and there's absolutely no way i could do that cuz i dont make nearly enough. i feel like i keep getting caught at the wrong place at the wrong time and everytime something happens its flatout bull ****. i know i am not a bad person, but i keep getting ****ed overr by the police. it's pissing me off and its ruining my future. how can i stop getting in trouble? should i just stop drinking or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brian20o2

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Maybe you should start hanging out with different people(Ones that don't tend to get in trouble or do stuff tha you could get blamed for). Ive been drunk 2 times and didnt really enjoy it, and I prolly wont be doing it again any time soon. You might want to stop drinking if you do it alot. You wouldn't want to ruin your life by going to juvy.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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You are softer than baby shyt... How the fk can you call that minor bs "trouble with the cops." Get your shyt together if you don't want to have to deal with the po po's.
 

PRMoon

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Wow you're a rebel!

Just kidding! After you get busted by the cops for posession or armed robbery or something of the like, THEN Talk to us about how you're running into trouble with the law. What you decribed there isn't sh*t. Tell your dad to get a life and you're just being young.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spider_007

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there seems to be a pattern here. It looks like they write you up every time they come in contact with you.....I was able to get away 3 times with out a ticket, but they gave it to me on th forth one.....
I could be wrong.....

easy solution; Quit doing stupid ****.
 
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