Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A negative statement(though not an insult) that is used to tease or lower the self-esteem of the girl or to show that you're uninterested. The problem could be, that I've put negs as something that is necessary to make women more interested in me. And sometimes that does work, and other times it does not. So, I've been using them as a tool to show that I'm not some nice guy.Atom Smasher said:
hey your right, but i stand by what i said,,i basically meant take the pain and turn in into a positive in the form of motivation,SharinganUser said: