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I keep failing at sarging and I'm at the point of tears...

Atom Smasher

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Deicide,

What is your understanding of the definition of a neg? Specifically why and when is it used?

I think maybe some of us can help you gain a better understanding of the use of this double-edged sword.
 

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hey man dont worry about it. failure is what teaches you what not to do. failure will guide you. dont worry about the failure.

that being said, since we did that challenge together, I feel like we are dogs so I am gonna give you an extra bit of advice. I have a friend. He is not actually my friend, because he is a huge loser and ****block. Anyway, my friend cares way too much about sarging. All he does is focus on getting women. He tries too hard. He focuses too much. As a result, he never gets poo. I keep telling him the only way to get women is to not give a **** about getting women.

Anyway, just keep pushing dog.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Deicide,

What is your understanding of the definition of a neg? Specifically why and when is it used?

I think maybe some of us can help you gain a better understanding of the use of this double-edged sword.
A negative statement(though not an insult) that is used to tease or lower the self-esteem of the girl or to show that you're uninterested. The problem could be, that I've put negs as something that is necessary to make women more interested in me. And sometimes that does work, and other times it does not. So, I've been using them as a tool to show that I'm not some nice guy.
 

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SharinganUser said:
Worst advice I've read in a while. Dating isn't something that you should torture yourself over. Getting phone numbers, going on dates, ect... are supposed to be fun.
hey your right, but i stand by what i said,,i basically meant take the pain and turn in into a positive in the form of motivation,
 
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