"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I just want a gf" guys

everywomanshero

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I have a few minutes before I go hit the malls, and I'm going to try running around the bookstore with dating books just for fun today. I think about the massive amounts of time I wasted on things that never mattered. Definite 80/20 stuff here. The thing is you have to have some options and learn justa little about how women work before you can make a relationship work and not seem needy, that's why it seems like I'm going a little overboard here just to get a gf.

This thread doesn't apply to people who are trying to become Master Seducers or academically interested in Seduction. However, I do know there is a lot of guys who seduction is not the focus of their entire lives. They just want to have options and never have to make a decision based on scarcity mentality. So for these guys they are lucky as it's simple, but I'll warn you: it's going to take balls. That's why few people will travel this road, because you will actually have to do something besides listen to people talk.

Here is the simplified way that is garuanteed to get any guy with all his extremities in tact laid with multiple gfs.

Find some good books on sex instruction. You're going to need this because I am going to tell you how to get laid instead of getting numbers. "Sexational Secrets" is one I am reading now. An example of a shyt book is KISS Guide to Sex. Anything that's too generic isn't going to help much. They have to get juicy. NO PG stuff.

OK NO Excuses start in whatever town you live in but plan on moving to a big city. I don't care what it takes and you have to start wherever you are. Everything in this list you are responsible to make happen no matter what with NO excuses. Need money.. GO GET IT. Need time. MAKE IT HAPPEN. No friends HIRE THEM, find them online, ask advice from strangers.


Looks:

You are barred from taking advice from askmen.com on specific items to wear. I've asked numerous women to rate shoes and clothing they suggest, and it isn't pretty what they had to say. This site is blacklisted for anything other than generic advice on how to care for your clothes, fitting iinfo, and extreme basics.

Go buy 3 good jeans that are girl approved, you must have a woman's opinion by taking he rwith you or asking strangers. If you ask strangers, you must ask at least 3 women. Ask her how they look when you wear them with shoes on, don't just hold them up. It's extremely important they fit well and are the right length and looks good with shoes on.

Next up are shoes. You are going to need 2 pairs of shoes minimum that can be worn with the jeans from above. Again, take a female with some fashion sense with you or ask 3 strangers min. You must put them on and be seen in them when asking for an opinion.

I'm less concerned with shirts. At some point you need to have a female go through all your existing clothes and throw out anything that is total crap so you won't mess up and wear it. Keep your normal clothes on a seperate side of the closet from your work stuff unless you have a cool job :)

Go get a soap magazine and ask 3 women which hair style would look good on you or ask some female friends with good fashion sense. They must be less than 35 years old unless you're an old guy. Try to pick women who look they have a clue, but asking anyone between 18-35 is better than not asking.

Go see a dentist. Get your teeth looking good. Don't try to figure it out. Call him and make an appointment. Ask your dental hygentist what to do to take care of teeth/breath. Don't research online it's an excuse to waste time.

If you're serious about getting laid, you are to go do this mission within 48 hours. Don't put it off. This is very very important I promise you.


Attitude and Technique:
You want sex more than women do. However, women CRAVE good sex 10x more than ANY MAN does. Hardly any males can provide that. I am almost always the most skilled lover a woman has ever had. You will be too by studying those sex instructions, getting feedback, and practicng by actually getting laid and taking advice from a guy who actually ****ing lays girls. You are not allowed to be shamed of ****ing girls. You are a guy who ****s girls no matter who likes it or not. You **** girls and you dont care what that means.

Go read the articles on Bristollair. These aren't too long and are actually a pretty quick way to get some understanding. REad tyler durdens stuff twice. Don't bother trying to find out if it's accurate, I've already done this for you. Guys like Tyler Durden have mastered chic psychology. Just trust me, I've verified this stuff with literally dozens of women plus my own experiences match this. There is some other good articles there too, you wil, find them on your own. Obviously, all txts are not quite literal but you'll get the basic idea.

You are allowed to listen to Basic Playboy CD and do the mission. Go download it or buy it. Do all of the mission Now before you do anything else.

You can now do Swinggcats audio course or ebook whichever you have handy or can get the fastest. You will do this while practicing Mystery's newbie mission, so you might as well grab his ebook too (it's cheap and straight to the point so just buy it) You will do both at the same time, so be prepared to spend 2 hours a day reading and go out Thursday Friday and Saturday. if you have to choose between reading or going out, then go out. No excuses.


NO DISCREDITED SCIENCES:

You are not allowed to read any NLP books or listen to Ross jefferies or read the Player's guide o or waste anytime reading or posting on mASF. Don't become another NLP nutcase. You are not allowed to purchase any subliminal msg tapes, not because they may "misprogram" you but because they actually don't do anything but waste time and money. This crap is a massive waste of time that provides very little return for the amount of time wasted. itt is an excuse. Additionally, you are not allowed to listen to or read anything from "Doc" Love. This guys is an AFC tool. I've only listened to 5 minutes of his audio and I am already 100% positive of this. I think this is the guy who inspired the movie The 40 Year old Virgin.

For dates, don't spend too much money. If she's a 9+ I personally feel you can be a little more flexible. Definitely don't spend any money on UGs. Listen to Deangelos Interview Series of (I think) Brent for some ideas on furniture arangement or dinner at home. Go out while it's downloading.

Now if you still want to try online dating you can do so. Mainly in the first 6 months the Internet will just waste your time. The main key to success is figuring out how to get all this ****ing technology outside of a cell phone the **** out of your life.

There is a ton more **** you could do but then it will become an excuse for you. Limit the excuses. If you want a mission. Go do this. Be done with it. This mission takes approx. 6 months to complete. going out TH FR SAT. If you miss a TH FRI SAT night then you must do 6-12 sets the next available day at a mall or campus. You are allowed to do less than 6-12 sets if you can extract. Don't not extract to get more sets, that's just stupid. You need to practice everything start to finish at some point anyway. You are not allowed to stop just because you got a #. A # without a makeout or extraction is probably total crap at this point. If it makes you more comfortable, you are allowed to venue change as long as it doesn't become an excuse of some sort.

I personally feel any guy should sleep with at least 50 women. Any less and you will always wonder what if what if what if. Studies show most men sleep with less than 10 women. Shyt, at first I thought they meant in a year. Hell no, they are talking a LIFETIME. That is just pathetic. At least 50 women. If you're one of those AMP/Escort guys and think you are gonna get around this with $$$$, I am going to say at least 40 of these women must come from straight pulls with no explotation by promises of $$$ or taking care of her kids. Go get busy. The sooner you get this done the better. No pressure though.

This will definitely get you laid. You will be able to pick up a chic most nights you go out at the end of this. You will have enough options that females worry you will leave but you really don't care if they were to leave. Women will be saying, I always dreamed of meeting a man like you.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sounds pretty good............only thing I would improve is maybe putting some links to the materials you reference to i.e. where do I find Tyler Durden's stuff. I just googled him but not much came up.........I'll try refining my search :up:
 

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This is very good.

What are these exercises you are talking about? Care to share?
 

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bristollair has some of TDs stuff you can find on there. It's just a good place to go get up to speed read fast. The exercises are "assignments" in various materials from Shark, Swinggcat, etc. They are something along the lines of a DJ bootcamp. MM newbie mission is outlined in his ebook. All of these materials include a short lesson on theory, then assign an "exercise" to practice using what you've learned. You will get very little from reading the ebooks unless you do the practice exercises. It's like reading a computer programming manual. You learn by playing with what you've read more so than from doing the reading itself.

I did quite a few sets today. I got a couple of weird looks, but I also got a hug and a phone number and alot of smiles and good conversation. if I had stayed home I would've gotten nothing at all. I was only out 1.00$ in gas. There is never an excuse not to practice, ever. Excuses are the only thing that can stop any of us from having a life full of women. I don't even need to go out anymore and I still do it because I promise you that once you get started it's just fun and not a thing you dread anymore.
 
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