I just refused sex thirty minutes ago.

[Flabbergasped?]

I had written an elaborate but inspiring FR, but i pressed the backspace button by accident and was brought to the redirect screen. Everything was lost.

This was the main point though. I totally gamed this chick to the point that I was groping her in public and she was throwing condoms at me in her friend's room.

I have class with her and I really don't feel like having to see someone I ONS'd every other day. Plus, I'm not attracted to her (even though she's decent looking, I think this is one of those special circumstances). Needless to say, I ended up saying, more or less directly, that I wasn't going to have sex with her before I left the room. There were other girls there, and I think that was the ultimate show of social proof.

I don't want to write out all the details, but is it worth going against your gut instincts for sex?

 

[KillaCam]

Hey buddy,

I'll keep it simple.. If you don't want to do it, there is no need to do it. If you personally feel you don't want to have sex with her, then you don't have to have sex with her.

Don't have sex for the sake of having sex. Weigh up whether you want it or not, and you have your answer. There's always plenty of action around the corner, action that you actually want

 

[sux2bu]

Good for you. Now go play with your Nintendo.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Flabbergasped?, you may have created a monster.

If she is interested, you conveyed interest AND you denied sex after sexual kino then you may have a hard time getting rid of this girl.

This is a technique I always use on women I *LIKE* because it builds a very high interest level.


I've denied sex to one chick I DIDN'T like after fingerering her and it became a 6 month game of dodge the hootie.



Bottom line, don't lead a chick on if you're not going to f^ck her. It's just not suave and it causes more headaches than it's worth.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

Good for you. Now go play with your Nintendo.

You're a tool. I wish the whole FR hadn't been erased, because it describes much more accurately why I didn't hit it. To be put shortly, she was pretty thrashed and I'd rather not do drunk chicks when I'm totally sober. It's only funny because my friends do this ALL the time and bother me because they get more action.

 

[Charm]

Start wearing a hoodie and only going out a night and attending church will help. Good luck and god bless

 

[Nasman]

What would u rather do. Fukk her or go wack off. It is your choice if she aint bad looking go for it. Your only young once. Have fun