I Just Read Some Mystery Method

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

Can anywho who read this book tell me the 411 in brief and easy to understand descriptions?
Cuz that book was way too tedious. Also, what is up with all those pictures, it's like a dam math book. I tried to kept awake once in awhile, but it ain't easy task.
Mahalo

 

[john_1234]

yes, this e-book has a ton of info. in it. when you read through it, try to grasp the main ideas of each phase. have a thorough understanding of that first. this info. for me was sufficient already. then browse through it a second time and pick up all the other info.

 

[JC9]

It's not really that long of a read, but treat it more like a technical reference manual.

It breaks the seduction process down into phases: Attact/Comfort/Seduce and then breaks each stage down into sub stages like: Open, show value, girl shows interest, you show interest -> comfort stage.

The real benefit I see from it is reviewing it after a night out in a club or doing street approaches. You can review each interaction you had and see which phase you got stuck at, then look at the examples of how to get past it.

Real high overview: Open a girl, demonstrate value while acting disinterested; Once she shows interest, reward it and build an emotional connection with her. Once emotional connection is established, isolate her and get her into sexual state, back to your place.

I wouldn't recommend just reading it front to back like a book though. Read Stage 1 stuff, go practice. Read stage 2, go practice.

 

[xblitz44x]

Can anywho who read this book tell me the 411 in brief and easy to understand descriptions?
Cuz that book was way too tedious. Also, what is up with all those pictures, it's like a dam math book. I tried to kept awake once in awhile, but it ain't easy task.
Mahalo

You're not missing anything, trust me. You're better off skipping the Mystery phase of your dating life altogther; otherwise you're going to have to spend another year 'unlearning' it before you're able to cultivate a healthy relationship.

 

[resilient]

You're not missing anything, trust me. You're better off skipping the Mystery phase of your dating life altogther; otherwise you're going to have to spend another year 'unlearning' it before you're able to cultivate a healthy relationship.

Good point you made there. Mystery Method serves well for ONS and STRs but not healthy for long-term relationship. Think about it, you're dropping false-time restraints, opinion openers, kino congruence tests, negs. Many in the community believe that the M3 model can be balanced out with Juggler's rapport building techniques in the comfort phase, but I haven't field tested this enough to add my $.02.

It's a non-commital game. You attract enough to seduce and then game other targets. Almost skip the # close and go into full-close after a time bounce to get pizza after the club, then seduction location: her place.

The begining is really inspirational however to get you out of your head and go sarging. Example: how many average days a person lives in a life (in terms of how many days you have left!). Survive and Replicate value shows why AFC nice guys can't hook up and they have to move on to build more alpha traits -- not really far off from becoming a Don Juan to be successful with more ladies. I think there are a few NLP patterns in here as well that he may have borrowed from Ross Jeffries, but don't pin me on that.

Bar and club dynamics: How to approach a mixed set with an opener, disarm the obstacle: (male, war pig, UG, CB) whatever, neg the target, isolate, kino, bounce.

Bottom line: Not healthy for LTRs since you're totally in the player mode.

 

[xblitz44x]

"The begining is really inspirational however to get you out of your head and go sarging.

This is the key and entire reason the program is 'successful' at all.

Johnny is shy around girls. He doesn't like to approach because he's afraid of getting shot down. He has no confidence or social skills. Johnny then finds Mystery's Method. After reading, he puts CONFIDENCE in the material and it inspires him to get off of his ass and talk to girls. Next thing you know, Johnny is getting laid. He attributes his success to Mystery's Method.

In reality, MM was successful for motivating him to get off of his asss and do something. If Johnny had the same confidence in himself that he had in MM, the relationships he had with women would have be real. But as it stands he'll have to still go and take care of his own securities before he'll truly be able to be successful.