"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Just Love Women Who Have the Guts to Hit On Men Directly

JaegerPilot217

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Not inspiring, a fools errand. For every one that works out there are probably dozens that dont. You don't want to rely on something like this.
Well I don't, I was just saying im glad there are exceptions but I don't rely on those, also i was asking about age because I was wondering if women their 20's date or hook up with men over 50
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Well that's great, inspiring to hear, I notice you are in your 50's, how many years younger is she than you? just asking because I assume she is significantly younger
When we hooked up, she was 27 and I was 43. We're about 15 1/2 years apart.

To answer your second question, yes, there are girls in their 20s who will hook up with men in their 50s. I've had several opportunities over the past year, but I'm taken. I have a friend my age who pumps and dumps young twentysomethings regularly. If you don't think of age as a big deal (which I don't), then they will tend not to.
 

JaegerPilot217

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zekko said:
When we hooked up, she was 27 and I was 43. We're about 15 1/2 years apart.

To answer your second question, yes, there are girls in their 20s who will hook up with men in their 50s. I've had several opportunities over the past year, but I'm taken. I have a friend my age who pumps and dumps young twentysomethings regularly. If you don't think of age as a big deal (which I don't), then they will tend not to.
Hmmmmm interesting, I guess that dirty old man stereotype is just a myth, but yeah I'm glad to hear there are some women out there that will initiate in the beginning
 
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