"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just left and moved out of my GF's house need good advice

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Originally posted by jigga23
So I got pissed left a calm message saying bye im leaving ill call you when im ready which i dont know if i will ever be and good luck in life love you. I packed up all my stuff and took our dog cause I paid for her. My parents own a house in the city. So today there has been no phone calls she hasn't called I didnt call her. Its so freakin tempting too but ill control myself. Will she call me eventually? Or should I call her in a couple of days. This whole damn things boils down too one she cant cope with her research project and teaching class once a week, and me and/or she knows that marriage is the next step with us and she doesnt know what to do. what should I do about this mess? I know im not going to be to call first though. This is like the third time this has happened it always happens when the semester is about to begin. Freakin ridiculous. She has one semester left i think so i dont know part of me says to just say fvck it and another says try to work it out.
WHEN A MAN MAKES A DECISION HE STICKS BY IT.

That was a very sorry ass thread basically saying that you are moving away in order to punish her but deep down you want her to panic and call you back all crying like she needs you back which will allow you to go back and you 'sort' of won this round. This is some drama sh1t this chick is craving and you are feeding it to her.

Why are you even thinking of marriage where you can't even get along with this b1tch??!!

This relationship has ended. You did good by packing your things but don't leave a trail behind for her to find. Accept that its over and be done with it. Don't call, don't wait for her to call or even pick up the phone when she will call, and don't worry about her but rather worry about yourself and your future since she isn't going to be there with you.

This chick has no respect for you. She is looking for a sugar-daddy that will take care of her and if you go back to her you will eventually lose her to another guy because it sounds as if this chick is on the 'hunt'. She made up her mind about you why don't you do the same about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by jigga23
so what should i do? what do you mean grow as a pair?
Misspelled, supposed to be "grow a pair".

What should you do? How about putting the importance back on to yourself and try to remember there are 3 billion more chicks at your disposal. The grief this 1 is causing you isnt worth the drama, you dont need it.

And read the Bible.
 
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