I just have a quick question. Somone might be able to help!?

[bearfan34201]

About 2 months ago I was with this super hot HB8. She was a nice girl, seemed to like me, blah blah blah.



Now, 2 months late we don't talk anymore and I'm onto other girls. But she's one that I still think about on occasion. Why? Because of how we just stopped talking, completely. I'm not talking about a huge fight saying we hate eachother and we're off. We just broke off talking.

Quick background on what happened. My question is.. I want to call her.. To see whats going on. Ya know? Hang out iwth her again, see if I can get that girl back.


- I originally had oneitis for her, not going to lie. Stupid, learned my lessons on that and moved on.

- we never dated, we we're seeing eachother for about a month or a litle longer. The thing that she told me that was interesting was that she only sleeps with her boyfriends(highschool ****). We never really did much and I can see why, I was never really sexual. The one thing that made me think we stopped talking/disinterest was me never asking her out? I did'nt want a gf for obvious reasons. But getting laid all the time wouldnt have hurt!

- We went to homecoming with eachother, and the thing was.. It seemed like everythinig was going good. I tried going in for a kiss once and she turned her head and continued talking toher friends. But later on she was kissing me/we always did the whole "hold hands" bull****.


I get in a fight at a football game with her school(big rivalry). Me and a kid went at it, and I saw her walk away from me. I was out all night the night before for Senior night so I was really crabby. I left her, Blew up on the phone telling her I heard all these rumors about her(3somes, Obsession over ex bfs'.. All lies actually). And after we talked she said she never did those things, blah bla hbalh. So I go "alright we're cool. Give me a call tomorrow".

The next night she never called. So I never called her again.


Last weekend we talked for the firs ttime, she said shes been really busy, some other bs excuse and said how we never talk anymore. She asked me what I was doing that night and I said a party, and she should come. She said to call, I did, She was out to dinner iwth her friends. And she never called me back.


The End..


Now the 2 sides are my buddies. They say I give up way to easy on girls, one not returned phone call or one little thing pisses me off and I never talk to them again. The other side is me thinking that if she was so interested, she would have made a attempt to contact me.

I'm debating whether or not to call her.


No this is'nt some highschool bull**** I'm in love bull****. I'm learning the game and I don't want to lose out on girls cause I did'nt give it another shot. I have a few girls on the side right now, But for one reason or another. The really hot blonde has my eye cause well..... She's really hot and I don't know why we stopped talking!

 

[Cod3r]

Seriously, things like this only complicate your life...

I'm sure someone will tell you what you wish to here, but in my experience these sort of situations only lead to drama which i'm too old for at this point. If she really liked you bro, she'd have contacted you, if you want another chance either call her or forget about her, its that easy...

Things fizzle out when the female loses attraction, for whatever you did or didn't do she lost attraction and you did not re-up it, so things went south. Personally move on, how hot could she be ? Sure you can find someone hotter without having to go through some long drawn out plot to win her back, jsut be confident call her up and tell her you're going out, if not... move on seriously


-Cod3r

 

[Bussey]

Short answer: You got way to emotional and made her feel like a slut. If she feels like a slut, or thinks you look at her as one then she won't do ****.

I'd suggest just forgetting her. Not worth your time to try and fix something that never was.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

 

[greenlake]

i agreed with cod3r and bussey statement, but i'm just gonna say it one more time in my own words. i think u messed up real bad when u got all emotional and ask her about the 3some, ex-bf etc. her image toward u are ruined. from being a cool guy to hang out with to an emo overprotected person. u're not her bf yet, so u shouldn't worry about those. her attraction toward u is no more. what i think u should do is go out and talk to more girls. always have more than 4 girls in ur mind so u won't fall in oneitis. next! her and if u still want to hang out with her then just be friend instead, she can be ur social proof. hmmm.....or u can try " u would make a great buddy" and kinos her, that would confuse and girls tend to want something that they can't get.

 

[bearfan34201]

Yeah I'm leaning more towards just letting the whole situation go. It wasnt so much a situation as where I never moved on and i was hurting lol. It was more of a question I did'nt understand. Also, hearing **** from your friends on how hot she was doesnt help lol

Point is, You guys are right. I made a few mistakes, I learned from them and I have moved on. My thoughts toward her never has effected me with other girls. I still talk and take out others. But I never understood why we stopped talking so that intrigued me.

Thanks, you guys seemed to understand what I was missing. Overreacting.

 

[greenlake]

hey bearfan, r u the same bearfan at bodybuilding.com?

 

[Raptured Phoenix]

Next Her.

 

[bearfan34201]

hey bearfan, r u the same bearfan at bodybuilding.com?

lol yea man!


This sites cool as ****! I don't read or post much as much on both cause of school, work, and going out every weekend.


Tonight... 3 parties I've been invited too. We'll see where this leads. I got a few girls I've talked to and etc. I'll give you guys a good field report