"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Screw the game, screw the rules, forget routines. Just be authentic, be a human being. Don't let routines define who you are.

I remember before, I wouldn't even say "hi" to a girl or approach a girl because I though it was "AFC".

**** that. Just go up and say hi! It doesn't make you a AFC, your being authentic. All these stupid rules were holding me back. Forget that.

Get your inner game dialed, do whatever. Its all good. Enough of this gamey stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Evolution said:
Screw the game, screw the rules, forget routines. Just be authentic, be a human being. Don't let routines define who you are.

I remember before, I wouldn't even say "hi" to a girl or approach a girl because I though it was "AFC".

**** that. Just go up and say hi! It doesn't make you a AFC, your being authentic. All these stupid rules were holding me back. Forget that.

Get your inner game dialed, do whatever. Its all good. Enough of this gamey stuff.
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You are bedy bedy bod mon. I gonna tell mystery on you. You a gonna costa heem lodda money. :D

Good job Neo
 
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Another part I forgot to add. YOU NOT NEED TO GAME EVERY GIRL YOU SEE Seriously, its OK it make female friends. Its totally OK. You do not need to worry about being a AFC. Forget all this gamey terms. We're all just people.
 
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Private Evolution, it again all comes down to Boundary Respect. The amount of bullsh!t you'll take, at any given time for any given reason. Once you're comfortable with your sexuality and congruent with your decision making, what you anticipate women saying to you becomes irrelevant.

Remember brother, it's the expectation of what you think she's going to say which is far more frightening than the reality of the deed.

Good realization.
 
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Everything that has been said has been absolutely correct. You have learned about confidence and that is all that you need. When you discover the confidence in yourself you don't need to worry about what people think, but you know what makes YOU happy. If you want to make an approach, who cares, just do you. If you get rejected, it doesn't matter, YOU tried. Keep doing what you are doing, you are making good progress.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Evolution said:
Screw the game, screw the rules, forget routines. Just be authentic, be a human being. Don't let routines define who you are.

I remember before, I wouldn't even say "hi" to a girl or approach a girl because I though it was "AFC".

**** that. Just go up and say hi! It doesn't make you a AFC, your being authentic. All these stupid rules were holding me back. Forget that.

Get your inner game dialed, do whatever. Its all good. Enough of this gamey stuff.
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Exactly man great to hear you have realized this :D
 
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