"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just had a revalation!!!!

danny987

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So here iam home alone at 6 o'clock. I decide to make the best of the situation and read up on the forum. I come across this post here. I then read the part part where he says that you only live once. Instantly i thing of all my missed opportunities because of how much of a puss i have been. Without think i started hitting myself, and i mean literally just laying out jabs onto my upper thigh. I have wasted so much because of my shyness.


NO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jdawgmcb

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Definitely, this is a good first step.. Now go make some approaches tomorrow, 5, no lackluster ones either, full fledged approahces, it's what i've been doing and it's helped INCREDIBLY.

Remember - HIgh school/college happens ONCE, and do you wana be the guy having fun or wishing you were the guy having fun?
 

tubagiant89

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Yeah, I know what you mean. This year I have suddenly decided to grow balls and have fun. And it is awesome. It is true that you only live once, so make the best of it.
 
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