"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I am bringing this to the attention of the community so that everyone can understand that it is important to balance health, wealth, and relationships to lead a successful life.

I have just received a call from the supervisor of the event crew here at the Television Master Control Facility I work at. They would like me to take up more work doing live sporting events, so they have asked me to work 4-12PM shift, sometimes 2AM since I will be running a west coast channel, although I am on the east coast. Since now we are in hockey and basketball season I have this opportunity and I am qualified to do more challenging work. Instead of working 8-4PM where the channel is running tapes most of the day, I will be entering the event crew and tackling more challenging live broadcasts.

I am thrilled to take this opportunity and never have to wake up early again for this place. Upon ending the phone call I feel like I'm in such a positive mental state, kind of like the way I feel after a successful night of sarging. It is one of those moments where it just feels so good to be alive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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piranha45

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yay~
 

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that sounds really interesting. Hope you enjoy it
 
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