Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I just don't give a f**k anymore.

thewarrior

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For the past couple weeks, I have been evaluating myself. My problem was I gave a ****. Now, I don't give a **** and my confidence is double (maybe triple) than what it was before.

I'm gonna talk to any girl I want to talk to. I don't give a ****. I have a natural ability to be funny, ****y, but all of that was suppressed because I gave a ****. I don't give a **** and now I can be the alpha male I was born to be. Nothing is going to happen when I pull a girl aside, run some game on her except I either get some pu55y or she says get lost. And if she says get lost, I don't give a ****.

I'm tired of caring what other people think or may be thinking. I'm tired of running down a list of reasons NOT to talk to a chick. I want some pu55y, I'm tired of being alone and not over a female's house ****ing so I just don't give a **** anymore. I see so many unattractive guys banging girls and I am not unattractive. This means I can bang girls too.

I used to be self-conscious about my weight. No, I'm not fat but I can stand to gain a few pounds. But then I started to look at myself and pick out all my good traits. I don't get out of breath. I have a slim waist. I have muscles and very little fat. I'm a slim, fit guy. I already tried gaining weight and it requires me to eat about 3500-4000 calories a day. That's too much work and too much money. I'm sure as I get a little older, gaining weight will be easier. Right now, I like the fact that I'm slim and I don't give a **** about all the guys who are bigger than me.

I don't give a **** about having a professional career, or some pu55y hobby. SOME girls may want guys with graduate degrees, BMWs, some cool hobby... but I don't give a **** about those girls anyway. Most girls want a cool, laid-back guy that works, pay for his own sh*t, and can be a man. If you got a job and you're not a bum, congratulations, most girls like that.

I'm not going to do anything unless I want to do it for myself. I'm not going to be something I'm not because people say that what gets chicks. I don't give a ****. I'm gonna be the smoothest motherf**ker that girls couldn't care less if I played the guitar.

TO ALL THE AFCs. Stop giving a f**k. Improve yourself physically the best you can and start saying and doing sh*t that YOU really want to say and do. When you find yourself thinking about what another person may think STOP and just say/do it. Start being an individual. F**k everyone else and get what you want to get.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's what i like to hear! finally, somebody is going on an adventure! Stop sitting and start living! Seize The Day! PM me if you need any help, i used to be like you, what really motivated me was when i started working out. You should start too. go check out the Health and Fitness forum. . I still think you should go to college thou, and learn Go give them enless pleasure like the ride after prom night. + respect

As you think you shall become!

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Come join me and share your thoughts at my Approach Journal and Fun Times Thread
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NICE POST :rockon:

I had this problem till recently. I was an AFC and I gave a sh*t about what women wanted.
Now it's all about me.

TO ALL THE AFC'S OUT THERE START ASKING YOUR SELF THESE QUESTIONS
"What do I want?"
"Where do I want to go?"
"What's the point of me pleasing her if she's not going to return the favor ;) "

ALSO SAY TO YOUR SELF ( and maybe her xD )

"I WANT WHAT I WANT"
"I WANT IT NOW"
"MORE"
 

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"I just don't give a f**k anymore"
this is what you was supposed to be doing anyway...
 

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:rockon:

I think im going to do just that too
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pua1989

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dont know how many times ive seen a thread with this title before...
 

mtlwlu

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You can write about that all you want, but until you go and do it, then its just a rant. To be cliche..."Actions speak louder than words."
Good luck man and have no fear, no doubt, all in, balls out.
 

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DonGorgon said:
That attitude does not work in relationships which is why most folks can have functional relationships anymore.. capitalism causes people not to give a **** socially

But this attidude helps you in terms of approaching women and getting laid, I have had this same attidude myself as of late where i approach women and Just do the APOC

I don't give a **** neither "it's all about me" like Pook woulda said

peace
 

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Hey buddy,

Glad to hear that you're looking to make improvement, just be careful though, what you're referring to is dealing with rejection, that's what you should be focusing on "not caring about".

In terms of getting physically in shape, getting a high paying career, hobbies, those are all important things to get a girl.

Asian Playboy always tells me "if you want the girl of your dreams, you need to be the man of hers".

Pick up is not just limited to the basic social dynamics shown in the books, it's actually something that should be geared towards improving your entire life.

My friend Josh always told me that Pick Up was great because it "Gave him a reason to shave in the morning"

So don't become bitter in your pick up journey, take it as a reason to improve yourself.

Best Wishes!

-Kevin
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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