I just don't care

[Luveno]

So I got an email from a very attractive young girl from an internet meeting site. It included her homepage, so before replying I decided to get more of an idea of who she was and what she looked like.

From her pics on the homepage, she is very very attractive. However...she seems dumb. Stupid. Shallow and without any kind of direction in life....and you know what? I have no interest in emailing her back. Even though she is a bomb, I really just couldn't care less about it.

Why is this important? Because it shows that a confident man will never lower his standards even if its something "unimportant" like maturity or integrity, that is missing. It also shows that looks, although very very VERY important, are not all that matters when it comes to girls. I could get in touch with her, go dance and then take her back to my place to screw, but I couldn't be bothered. I just really don't care...and it surprises me because a year ago I would be trying to hit it up.

 

[saki]

Then why didnt you just go fvck her then? Who cares if shes dumb, she has a nice hot wet hole for you to stick your cocc in

 

[DjDreamer]

LoL...yep...if you don't care about her then why don't you go visit her for some instantaneous sexual gratification? Would you rather jerk off all by your lonesome?

 

[So Many Ways]

Originally posted by saki
Then why didnt you just go fvck her then? Who cares if shes dumb, she has a nice hot wet hole for you to stick your cocc in

I was thinking the same thing. It's not like you have to marry her.

 

[Luveno]

To answer your questions:

Because I'm in control of myself. I just couldn't be bothered.

 

[Andromax]

I must applaud you, Luveno !!


Props to you, for maintaining your integrity of standards!

I am glad that others on these boards share the same self -control and respect that a true don juan enjoys


Andromax

 

[Double J]

I see where you're coming from, Luveno. In high school, I had a chance with this very cute girl, but I never took it because the girl was super dumb and it was just a complete turnoff. For me, being with a girl who's too different than me on an intellectual level won't work out in the long run.

 

[backbreaker]

you guys have to get in the mentality that " you have to bring more to the table for me to be interested then just looks".

That's what he did. That will raise your confidence. YOu don't want to look like a stray dog looking for meat everytime you see an attractive girl.

 

[Desdinova]

Sounds like you've gotten to a point where you can land any pretty woman and have accepted that. But if she has the personality of a desk, the attraction immediately drops and she becomes as attractive as a worn out shoe.

Reminds me of this incredibly attractive woman. She was a major attention wh0re at the bar I frequented. She'd flirt with other guys so she could get free drinks. I refused to buy her any alcohol, but I ended up getting her number.

I called her up around noon on Saturday and talked to her for a total of 5 minutes. Within that 5 mins, I found out that she has a child (turnoff #1), and the child's grandfather had custody (red flag #1). This chick was already drunk (red flag #2) and her mother has been on her case because she's an alcoholic (red flag #3). Even though this chick was cute and hot, I immediately threw out her number after that phone call.

Anyway, when I showed up at the bar, she had turned completely shy around me. She got one of her friends to come up to me and tell me she wanted me to come sit at her table.

I was truly amazed that I was able to make an attention wh0re turn into a shy little girl. I knew that I was in and she'd be easy to lay, but that 5 minute phone call turned me off completely.

 

[DeathDealer]

Self control is the definitive mark of a true "MAN" - a person who just thinks "oh just bang any girl, or I'm gonna bang this cute girl" mentality most likely don't have much self control of himself and he is just a boy who wants to satisify his needs.

 

[Jay-X]

i agree with you, luven, for i would never fùck (let alone a relationship) with a dumb girl, even though she was a 10... hmmmmm, let's say a 9.5;-)

 

[Robo-Kai]

Can we see the homepage?

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by Jay-X
i agree with you, luven, for i would never fùck (let alone a relationship) with a dumb girl, even though she was a 10... hmmmmm, let's say a 9.5;-)

LoL...

 

[Life-Trainee]

Does self-control imply masturbation?

 

[Andromax]

Does self-control imply masturbation?

Self control implies maintaining your integrity.

If you for some ungodly reason, made it a goal to not masturbate, than yeah thats a lack of self control if you give in...


Myself however, I beat my sh!t like it owes me money.