“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I Just Can't Take It

werdmaster

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I really hate highschool. Its all so freakin political. Being unpopular, and relatively a loser (yes Ill admit it), I can't get any girls. It also effects my self esteem, so my game is always fuct.

But beyond that, I get made fun of a lot, for stupid things, like my hair or clothes. I made a great effort to try to get popular, and forgoe the people that made fun of me. But, that ended up slapping me in face, literally.

It just makes me so unhappy about all areas of life. I can't go through one day of school, where I can get off the bus. And think to myself, "Wow, that was a great day" or "Life is good."

What can I do?
My parents offered to put me into private school, should I go and try to make new friends there? Or should I just wait it out?
 

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Life's unfair, the trouble with changing schools is that unless you as a person have changed, you will remain in the same social strata, clique grouping that you are in. Thats what this board is about, its bout improving yourself so that you are confident and happy with your life. A side effect of this is it helps in getting girls. Feel free to give me a bell.

I have gone through this as have most people here, but like anywhere there are trolls and people who will put you down. Dont worry. But try not to start too many new threads, you can always post new questions here and i will try to answer them.

First things first, dont give a damn about what others think about you. Then you will start to enjoy life and be more laid back and then people will think higher of you. make some changes and peservere and you will get there.


Roll with the punches
 

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Who needs girls to be happy? Not you nor I of course. Go take up a hobby, job, sport that you really like. I like tennis and I do it. People watch and see me have that "I'm playing so fuk you!!" attitude and they start respecting me more. Also get in shape.

This may be a really selfish mindset, but I used to be chubby as hell. How I'm lean and better than average looking. The girls that I used to dream of start starting convos with ME. Not the other way around. But this time I just blow them off like they did to me. Show them how it feels. And that's what motivates me. Working your ass off and spitting the cheaters' (eventual losers) face.

Motivation. Never give up. Private school? Sure, but you'd only be like the man who runs away from his own shadow.

Good luck and don't take high school too seriously unless its about grades, cuz you'll be gone soon.
 

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I can't say I've entirely been there, but I ahve observed friends overgo this fallback.

I've always ad a decent rep, but this year it grew a lot, and I'll explain.

Chill out about life. Last year I was kinda the kid who tried ot be kool. Sure it got me points, but I got *****ed at by some people and I have a feelign a lot of them actually hated me. I was creating a fake person person to blend in kind of.
This year, i excepted and reinvented myself. I realized: No one caresa bout clothing. If I play a sport, I talk to the "popular" guys more, but hell I can talk to them outside of that and be on their good graces as well.

I have a common interest with about 75% of the jocks/preps/popular kids:smoking weed[don't do this, it doens't make you cool, seriously]. Now I'm literally known throughout my grade as the biggest druggy[fvcking rumors]. But I'm relaxed about it.

I guess I got lucky as i have classes wioth really popular guys, but now I can walk up to all those jcoks/alpha-males in my grade and chat it up. I don't try and be a ****, I just relax and take them off their "big-powerful-popular" pedastal. All this and I'm still the same stoner-skater kid, I ust have friends iin every group in my entire grade[good status-boost].

It just works bro. I suggest like the above, pickup a few tunes they listen to, listen to standup CDs[to improve humor] and your set. Cracks some jokes, find that same interest and use it to your advantage.

O yeha one last tip: Get soem balls. If you hear about a party, hit that sh!t up and do something infront of everyone that will relate yourself to a kickass party[this is assumign you drink or smoke or something]. ex:[but nto at a aprty] I blew a condom up on my head adn ran around the subschool oneday. ****, ig to a lotta respect for that ****, even if no one mentioned it. -ALL- of my skater-friends had people asking who I was[since you couldn't see my face].

Goodluck bro,a dn the private school isa big no-no.
 

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IMO the people who actually enjoy highschool are usually losers. Do what you want to do and just try to feel good about yourself. If people don't like you, Fvck em!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If you wanna get chicks but have no status at your school, simply move to the women from other schools. They won't know how popular you are, or where you stand in it. They will just take you as you are.
 

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Originally posted by BigBrent701
FLUCK THEM kids man, Wait till college, itll be totally different. One thing I know from experience about kids fluckin with you is that somehow they always know the best ones to do it to. Sometimes they just doin that fluckin with ya, others they dont like you. Dont be the weakest link, make them move on and try to fluck with someone else. Im speaking this from experience, if you give them the reaction they want they are gonna do it again. If you dont give them the reaction they want it will stop. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. If your willing to take the consequences heres what i would do. THis summer train your ass off. The first flucker to mess with you. POP THEM, hard! People will change their oppinion about you drastically, especially over the summer.
Don't make them go f.uck with somebody else as all you are doing is shifting the misery. Agreed, never give them the action they want.

The trouble is the reaction they want is often for you to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF as that gives them an excuse to go back at you. It also works if you dont pay any attention as no one likes being ignored, especially bullies.

Willing to take the consequences, ie getting beaten the crap out of by all their friends. The trouble is that many people here dont have the confidence to stand up to them in the right way. Listen, i do not advise smacking them one, sure if they start then be able to take care of yourself and win the fight. But, i did this and got a reputation as a troublemaker, this year, people were truly shocked when they got to know me better and realised that i was actually alright and did no longer sock anyone when they were rude. Water off a duck's back is the way to treat it, THERE IS NO NEED TO BEAT EVERY ONE UP.
 
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**** EVERYONE, HIGH SCHOOL IS A JOKE!

Lift weights, grow your hair long like a hippie's, and simply don't give a sh*t man.

Don't try to be cool, it only makes you look desperate and even more of a loser. Just lay back and laugh at all stupid and pointless things high school kids take seriously. Once high school is over, you're free, you won't have to see them motherf*ckers ever again probably. But improve yourself bro, focus on your grades first because you're there to better your future, not now. Think about your future, and look upon it as a chance to rise above it ALL. A chance to be respected one and not the one that is stepped on. Strive for your future because it is you and nobody else. If you focus your energy on trying to be popular it will be a waste because its only 3 or 4 years man, and after that? You ain't popular, You AIN"T ****!!!!!! Just another one of 6 billion people on this earth. Don't suck up for the fame, be true to yourself and have no regrets, no apologies.

Man, my best friend is looked upon as a loser and a perv because he tries too hard to fit in. He goes on and tries to buy himself the popular and pricey clothes, but for nothing. And overall he is seen as desperate. He's a dunce also, and I tell him, quit listening to MTV and that bullsh*t rap music and take a up a book, learn how to shoot a gun, play a guitar, or practice more bowling(He is REALLY REALLY good at that), I tell the f*cker to keep doing that because he could seriously go to the pros after high school, but he doesn't think with his brain and wastes his time on the computer and then wants to hang out with me because no one else will.

I on the other hand have made people to respect me. I used to always be the pissed off guy at school you don't wanna f*ck with. Its a bad thing, but I learned to loosen up, took up football for a couple of years, and instantly won new friends. I'm naturally an amiable guy and can make friends with just about anyone I want to and you should be the same way. Be friendly to people, talk to people. Make comments in class as long as they're not dumb. Show that you know you're sh*t. Make friends with some of your teachers.

You need to adjust your attitude. Your post reeks of negativity and that is why you never get off the bus at the end of the day saying it's been a good day. You're negative, you're insecure.

You wanna improve motherf*cker?

It all starts with your attitude. If you ain't got the right attitude you are f*cked, my friend. Clean your thoughts and engrain an attitude of strength, self-respect, and integrity.

Don't talk or think about getting girls right now, because your attitude repels them.

If you want to be respected, you have to make a CHANGE, a CONCRETE change. It isn't an attitude with an off and on switch. You've got to have it all the time. The attitude will bring forth confidence. And confidence and self-respect will take you a long ways.

If you change you are taking ACTION. Something that many people don't do. They b*tch, and moan about how nobody likes them and that everything sucks.....wrong assh*le! YOU SUCK FOR NOT MAKING A CHANGE, NOT TAKING ACTION TO KILL WHAT'S HAPPENING to YOU.

Your negativity is like a virus that infects everything you grace. Your negativity stinks, and people are gonna get away from you. Your negativity reeks of the putrid stench of desperation.

WHAT YOU NEED IS A B*TCH SLAP AND A BATH TO CLEAN ALL THE BULLSH*T YOU HAVE ON YOU....

If you're doing this for the ladies, for the guys, for society, YOU ARE A FAKE and IMO, you put yourself in an even worse state of mind because you are a LIAR and are seen upon the same as the dirt on the soles of my nazi boots.

Never conform for them, Never try to find happiness in popularity, because all those p*ssy whoop assh*les and c*ck suckers are as insecure as you to tell you the truth. Why do you think they have little groups? They don't know how to be by themselves, they need the guidance of others on how to be themselves or so they think.,..They are FAKE, they are DIRT. Your individuality is raped when you try to confrom to the norm.

Do what you wanna do bro. I've told you what you need to do if you want respect. REAL RESPECT, not the kind that last for 15 minutes and then when some other person does something great, you are the forgotten one.

Do what you want, and if it makes you happy, keep doing it, more power to you,

In the mornings before you go to school keep in mind this "YOU ARE BRAIN, C*CK, and BALLS....DEEP DOWN STRONGER THAN ALL!"

Don't fake your life - inhale it
And then you'll know yourself
The change in you is G*ddamn Electric
Don't waste your time, embrace it
And then you'll know yourself
The change that is G*ddamn Electric will focus
The Mind's Eye... - Pantera
 

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Dimebag, I needn't be lectured on individuality cuz ur talking to the guy who wore the same color shirt everyday for freshman year, all as a statement of my favorite color. Btw, my hair is long as a hippies, and I do lift weights.

But being an invidual hasnt helped one bit, and thats why ive become so negative, plus I think Im in a depression also.

Im just tired of people bothering me about being me. And Im not gonna take that nemore. I have the respect of parents and teachers, but not of my peers. Thats y the next time someone gives me ****, Im gonna break the bastards nose. People just have to learn that they cant walk all over me.

I was thinking of conforming. But Dimebag, you reminded me of how great it is to be an individual, thanks.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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