I just cant seem to meet the women i want..

[Hailfire777]

I live in long island, in an area where all the women seem very unnaproachable.. especially the ones i want. They all come from a ton of money and seem to only be interested in guys with money, literally... this intimidates the hell out of me since i come from a middle class house and dont have the money to fall back on like most of the guys their used to dealing with do.

i know this is an excuse, i dont really have any friends who can go out and have fun with me.. im too scared to ask if any of the dudes i work with want to go out and get some girls..

im very good looking, i had previously been with one girl, i was with her for like 2 months, shes the first girl i had sex with and she used the hell out of me and abused my feelings and ****ed me over..

im sick of being an AFC, the only way i can see myself getting with the girls i want however.. would be by getting friends to go out and get them with..

i actually work as a personal trainer at a gym, which should mean huge chick magnet.. but no, the girls at my gym are suprisingly unnatractive.. the hottest girl there is the girl i messed around with and got AFC'd by even though i slept with her numerous times..

any advice?

btw im 19... i know my problem is that im afraid to go out and get myself noticed, but its so hard... this girl ****ed with my head and so does my past of not getting any action for so long.

i could use a swift kick in the butt by you guys and tell me what im doing wrong.

 

[CORVETTE06]

hey whats up im 19 and from long island. i dont want to sound gay but message me your screen name... all the girls from LI are fvckin *****es. u have to play games to get w/ them... i got wit plenty of girls but they are all stuck up.. especially at kraze & dublin.... girls are the hofstra bars aren't that bad tho.....some of my friends are too shy to talk to girls and i end up talkin to a group of like 5 girls by myself...my friends from college arent like that but they are all home for the summer so i have to wait for them to come back before i can have real fun at the clubs...

 

[Trance]

Its not about
"I just cant seem to meet the women i want.. "

Its about
"Women cant seem to meet what i need / want"

 

[Hawke]

When does the girl pick the guy though? Is it before he says a word, where she lusts after his hot body and then hear's his lame voice and tired lines? Is it after he's spoken and she finds herself being drawn in by his words, his personalty? Does she pick him from what she hears about him from her friends before she has met him?

 

[Sean O]

This advice is cliched on these boards, but I'll say it anyway: Read the DJ Bible (the link is at the bottom of the page).