I ignored 3 girls ( field report for today )

[georgie24]

i had left the gym and wanted to get some chow in my belly for my post workout meal, so i head over to the pizza shop

there was a few people there and this group of 3 girls, i wasnt scared, shy or nervous but there facial expressions of seriousness shunned me away and i didnt say sh*t, i noticed them checking me out as i left as they were eating outside in the patio

i need to start saying something to women right off the bat and not kicking myself in the arse for not doing so like im doing now

i guess i didnt know what to say off the top of my head and as i sat and ate my pizza i overloaded my brain with crap lol:cheer:

sieze the moment to say something ( whether its gain or no gain) is my montra from this second on !!!!

 

[georgie24]

F= This im going to step out a bit later on tomight, i need to make up for this slip up and go strike up convo with minimum of 2+ random women

this day isnt over !

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

i need to start saying something to women right off the bat and not kicking myself in the arse for not doing so like im doing now

Here's a very useful technique:

Every time this happens, write it down, as soon as possible. Keep a notebook in your car or bag or whatever.

Write down what happened, what you did, then WHAT YOU WISH YOU WOULD HAVE DONE

Then later at night, rehearse in your mind, WHAT YOU WISH YOU WOULD HAVE DONE.

This does two things:

1) It helps your to rehearse the things in your mind that you want to do in real live, which will make it much easier to do in real life.

2) It helps you create BEFOREHAND, things to say and do next time you're in a similar situation, so you don't have to make shyte up on the spot, which is difficult in any case.

The more often you do this, the more quickly you'll start to act and behave just the way you want to. And you do want to act that way, don't you?

 

[zekko]

Nice advice from taiyuu!

Lol, I like this topic though. I'm going to start posting field reports about all the women I ignore:

"There was an HB8 in the produce department today. I swaggered past without even looking at her. I could sense her desire for me increase as a result of my white hot indifference. I set myself apart as I showed her that I was not like all the other AFC chumps that hit on her and asked for her number.

Mark this down as a successful day of sarging! Tomorrow I will ignore two more girls, and slowly work myself up to ten a day!"

 

[disgustipated]

I thought it was a hilarious premise too. Either way I love field reports.

 

[AAAgent]

I second the great advice from Taiyuu as this is exactly what i do as my brain often shuts down and i become boring.

I will rehearse my first date phone call.

Hey, how are you doing. How was your weekend. That sounds exciting, and im guessing you guys had fun. (anything that comes to mind when talking). I'm getting dinner this saturday, are you free?

I also rehearse a few answers she can give me and when i call or approach im prepared. After you warm up and have a few dates it becomes second nature but i'm a guy that isn't really naturally good at anything but im good at putting in the time and effort to prepare and i use that to my advantage.

 

[georgie24]

I dont know what it is about saturday and sundays, people around here seem like they need to be seen with other people ie : not alone

i like doing stuff by my self and am not embarrased to go outdoors alone on the weekends

is this something i should change? should i hide inside the house on the weekends because i dont surround myself with people?

i have noticed people are easier to talk to during the week and dont have this force field of a front going on !

today i talked to alot of women, seemed natural and fluid

 

[backbreaker]

you could use this to your advantage if it's a situation like you know you will see them again at the gym.

let them know you see them but take your time; but that's only if you know youa re going to see them again. never use that as an excuse ot not approach.

 

[BadNews]

I've adopted a 3 second rule when it comes to approaching attractive women. If I notice an attractive woman I may be interested in, and we make eye contact I give her a bit of a smirk (like: I see you checking me out) and FORCE MYSELF to approach within 3 seconds. If you are able to force yourself to make a move immediately it shows a ton of confidence. Also, upon eye contact, ensure SHE is the one that eventually breaks eye contact, if she doesn't then immediately go to her and strike up a conversation.

I usually open with a simple "And who are you?" The rest flows naturally.

THREE SECONDS! Try it. If you cannot do it in three seconds of eye contact your chances diminish quickly; and you really need to give your sack a squeeze.

 

[georgie24]

I've adopted a 3 second rule when it comes to approaching attractive women. If I notice an attractive woman I may be interested in, and we make eye contact I give her a bit of a smirk (like: I see you checking me out) and FORCE MYSELF to approach within 3 seconds. If you are able to force yourself to make a move immediately it shows a ton of confidence. Also, upon eye contact, ensure SHE is the one that eventually breaks eye contact, if she doesn't then immediately go to her and strike up a conversation.

I usually open with a simple "And who are you?" The rest flows naturally.

THREE SECONDS! Try it. If you cannot do it in three seconds of eye contact your chances diminish quickly; and you really need to give your sack a squeeze.

LOL yes thats what i have been doing, and kicking the closest thing to me when i let em slip away:rockon: