"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I honestly can't tell if this woman is interested or not...

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Ragnarok

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Hi guys

So, a woman asked me for coffee. Sounds straight forward enough, but I'm having a hard time working out if she's interested or not.

On the plus side, she asked me for coffee, she called to re-arrange two days ago because of work stuff and seemed keen to meet up at some point in the future, I proposed another time and date and she went with that. She also seems like a genuine person, as opposed to the women I've dealt with before.

On the flipside, she can come across as quite flirty with people, she's got a very outgoing personality and I guess I worry I'm reading into it way too much.

So how the hell am I supposed to tell? I know Tariq Nasheed would say not to worry about it and just do it, but for someone who doesnt get many dates, but I'd like to have an idea before I go in.

So guys, any thoughts or ideas on what I can do to tell, or any quick tips for if we just turn up and I don't know?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mike32ct

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I think it's too soon to tell. (Although it sounds pretty good.) You'll have a better idea by date two. Plenty of first dates seem to go well, but it could just be the girl being polite.

Definitely go for a kiss on date two. This will tell you a lot. (I'm assuming you didn't already.). Does she linger near you at the end of the date? Good. Does she run to her car lol? Bad.
 
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jimmy18

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I avoid girls who initiate because generally they do it for reasons other than genuine interest. But best way to find out if she's interested is to go for the kiss with 2 strikes and she's out.
 
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