I honestly can't tell if this woman is interested or not...

[Ragnarok]

Hi guys

So, a woman asked me for coffee. Sounds straight forward enough, but I'm having a hard time working out if she's interested or not.

On the plus side, she asked me for coffee, she called to re-arrange two days ago because of work stuff and seemed keen to meet up at some point in the future, I proposed another time and date and she went with that. She also seems like a genuine person, as opposed to the women I've dealt with before.

On the flipside, she can come across as quite flirty with people, she's got a very outgoing personality and I guess I worry I'm reading into it way too much.

So how the hell am I supposed to tell? I know Tariq Nasheed would say not to worry about it and just do it, but for someone who doesnt get many dates, but I'd like to have an idea before I go in.

So guys, any thoughts or ideas on what I can do to tell, or any quick tips for if we just turn up and I don't know?

 

[Mike32ct]

I think it's too soon to tell. (Although it sounds pretty good.) You'll have a better idea by date two. Plenty of first dates seem to go well, but it could just be the girl being polite.

Definitely go for a kiss on date two. This will tell you a lot. (I'm assuming you didn't already.). Does she linger near you at the end of the date? Good. Does she run to her car lol? Bad.

 

[jimmy18]

I avoid girls who initiate because generally they do it for reasons other than genuine interest. But best way to find out if she's interested is to go for the kiss with 2 strikes and she's out.