Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I hit my girlfriend what is the alpha way to handle things

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DamHE

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We were chilling outtoday, my girlfriend was getting very emotional about something, I wasn't really paying attention because I was playing my Gameboy SP. Anyway while she was talking about her problems I noticed that I was engaged in battle with a SHINY PIDGEY (chances are about 1/1000 to get a shiny pokemon). Anyway, she noticed that I wasn't really listening to her and she took my Gameboy and threw it against the wall and broke it.

I got a little emotional as well and punched her in the face, and she started crying and left the apartment. I know we arent suppose to put the ***** on the pedestal but do u think I should say sorry to her?

thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BlakeW5

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Are you f#cking kidding me? I mean for real, is this a serious question?


Don't come in here and ask for an "alpha" way to handle this, because you've already shown you're anything but. One, I highly doubt an alpha guy would be playing a pokemon game. Two, I know an alpha guy certainly wouldn't hit a chick over his gameboy and forementioned pokemon game being broken.

So yes, you should apologize. You even needing to ask whether or not you should appologize is troubling in and of itself (and shows you're anything but alpha). There's a difference between putting a b*tch on a pedestal (you should probably quit referring to women as b#tches too) and treating her like she's not human.

Finally, maybe you should drop this addiction to having to act "alpha". Being "alpha" doesn't mean being a raging ****head. From what I've seen far too many guys definition of alpha involves acting like a complete tool. Despite what anyone has ever told you being a real man involves knowing when you screwed up and being man enough to appologize.

Sorry if this comes off as harsh, but I have very little respect (none actually) for guys that hit girls. If she was trying to kill you it would be different, but all she did was throw your gameboy. The worst part is that you had to go to an online website to determine whether or not you owed her an apology.
 

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I think an alpha could play pokemon and still be an alpha, plenty of my friends in HS played it senior year when they were bored and some were pure alpha (wish I could have learned from them earlier).

However, hitting your GF over a ****ing video game? Honestly, I'd expect a breakup happening realllll soon. It's a GAME. I love my video games, but if my friends or my family or my future first gf are having problems and want me to listen, I'll listen. I've been called by a friend while I'm getting a rare chance in a game, but I'll forgo the chance because it's a GAME. It's not REAL. You're getting far too attached to the game.
 

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Did you even read my post, i was in a battle with a SHINY pidgey,if it was just a pidgey i would have listened to her, jeez people these days!!!! :cuss:

I decided it is better to DHV by not saying sorry I will see her again and be mad at her for ruining my day, so i have higher value :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Both of you have serious anger issues. I suggest ending the relationship ASAP. If you don't end it with her, you will fight again and you may end up hitting her again, possibly really hurting her.

Also shut the hell up about DHV. Once you hit a woman, you have become the lowest form of man possible. You have as much value as a stinking pile of shit :)
 

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I think the OP handled the situation well. She should have been svcking his cawk instead of b!tching to him.
 

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Couldn't have handled it better myself. The ***** was way out of line.
 

eaglez1177

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Hahahahhahaha I love how half the ppl here believe this is true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptainJ

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DamHE said:
Did you even read my post, i was in a battle with a SHINY pidgey,if it was just a pidgey i would have listened to her, jeez people these days!!!! :cuss:

I decided it is better to DHV by not saying sorry I will see her again and be mad at her for ruining my day, so i have higher value :)
Haha, this is quite a funny Troll. Punching a girl cos you lost out on SHINY PIDGY rofl.

I think you should have beated her ass with her own shoe, that'll show the ***** never to mess with shiny pidgy
 

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Obviously a troll and a Sony/Microsoft fanboy. A gameboy can not be broken. I mean its Nintendo come on dude, only a Playstation or Xbox would brake from a chick flick.
 

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"I think...i want to have sex with you"

"Oh fvck no, i'm catching this shiny pidgy, motherfvker" *punches face*
 

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I'm not trolling :nono: .. You guys dont understand; she was crying about how her cat died and wtf am I supposed to do about it, i cant bring it back to life? Im going to throw a brick through her window, with a note attached, saying "thanks for ruining a perfetly good saturday", this will be an awesome demonstration of higher value..

Learn from the master, gentlemen.

PS - dedication, it broke.. it wont turn on, care to fix it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this is just sad. an young, immature guy goes on the internet stumbles upon this site. reads to the huge egos of some of the keyboard jockeys here, can't decide what is appropriate social behaviour and turns into a chauvanistic ****head

my advice to the OP, is to forget everythign from this site. I mean it, this is the INTERNET, any idiot can say whatever they want and their misguided views about women, you don't need to listen to it.

don't treat women like objects just there for you enjoyment, you need to act is a socially accpetable way everywhere in life. otherwise you wont go far, and you can take your chauvanistic views to you whilt you clean toilets or lift boxes
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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