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i heard that a girl wont drop her bf unless she has another guy lined up...

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If you KNOW a girl liked you before she got a boyfriend, and strongly sense that she still does like you a month after getting a bf (by constantly touching and flirting), and you know that the bf is not good for her (based on what he has done to her before), but she plays the whole "i love my bf" thing in her aim profile, but tells other guys that dont know him that it is just a joke... then what is the best way to get her thinking that i am a sure option and getting her to dump her bf? i would like to do this without her getting mad at the fact that i know she has a bf but dont care.

Honestly i dont take their relationship seriouly in my mind. I actually am more of a dj towards her now... but I am restricted because i cant kiss her like i did before due to the fact that i know her bf

thanks for any help
 

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please dont respond with advice to forget about her, or she isnt good relationship material, or dont have onitis...

i wont forget about her because i had something going
i know she isnt a good relationship girl which is why i will avoid that
i dont have oneitis for her, i go after many girls since reading this site

thanks... again
 
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Originally posted by nobodyknowsit
If you KNOW a girl liked you before she got a boyfriend, and strongly sense that she still does like you a month after getting a bf (by constantly touching and flirting), and you know that the bf is not good for her (based on what he has done to her before), but she plays the whole "i love my bf" thing in her aim profile, but tells other guys that dont know him that it is just a joke... then what is the best way to get her thinking that i am a sure option and getting her to dump her bf? i would like to do this without her getting mad at the fact that i know she has a bf but dont care.

Honestly i dont take their relationship seriouly in my mind. I actually am more of a dj towards her now... but I am restricted because i cant kiss her like i did before due to the fact that i know her bf

thanks for any help
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Why would you want to make her think that you're a "sure option" for her? That's just giving her all the control in the relationship. Are you sure you're a DJ man? Girls want guys who are a challenge, not a sure thing.
 
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make her think you're a sure thing, and then she'll be like "wtf?" when you're suddenly the unattainable. just mess with her head a little. she shouldn't get mad at your apathy towards him if you put in a humorous light.

and i don' think that's true. you wait till she dumps him and then go in for the kill.
 
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Originally posted by nobodyknowsit
[Bi wont forget about her because i had something going

i dont have oneitis for her, i go after many girls since reading this site[/B]
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Right, those kinda contradict each other. If you didnt have oneitis you would foget about her.
 

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This is what you should do... just kiss her ass 24/7 and make it clear you have no...

game or anything better to do and just pray (openly and in front of her) that she will dump her boyfriend and take you as a second best.

Or grow a pair of balls...
 
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Originally posted by nobodyknowsit
If you KNOW a girl liked you before she got a boyfriend, and strongly sense that she still does like you a month after getting a bf (by constantly touching and flirting), and you know that the bf is not good for her (based on what he has done to her before), but she plays the whole "i love my bf" thing in her aim profile, but tells other guys that dont know him that it is just a joke... then what is the best way to get her thinking that i am a sure option and getting her to dump her bf? i would like to do this without her getting mad at the fact that i know she has a bf but dont care.

Honestly i dont take their relationship seriouly in my mind. I actually am more of a dj towards her now... but I am restricted because i cant kiss her like i did before due to the fact that i know her bf

thanks for any help
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Ever hear of periods? :D

Well Sounds like your p*ssy whipped (Ha thats not oneitis :p) If you REALLY want her, make your move and get her to dumb the chump. But don't let it be your main concern. Thats my advice.
 
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