I have women who consistently approach me/make it very easy to approach them

[mrgoodstuff]

my desire for a LTR doesn't mean I'm taking anything that I get. I'm extremely picky and screen women as much (hell probably) more than they screen men

We already said that the mindset required for this is not attractive . Women want to feel fun and attraction. You can't look for a GF in 2018, the energy is all wrong .

 

[bigdave17]

I understand that. But this heavy level of screening so soon may be part of your problem. It is clear that you are finding out a lot about these women immediately, which is an indication that your conversations with them are heavily slanted toward LTR desires in general.

You are literally conveying "I want a LTR!!" With every woman you speak to for a few minutes.

Once again, you are easing the fears of the LTR rejection that most women below your league worry about. That is why they "cling to you".

What are you talking about with women when you are NOT screening them for LTR/marriage?

Anything fun? Or are you in screening mode 100% of the time?

I'm not saying don't screen at all, but if you want to keep women in/above your league interested, you cannot scare them away with what amounts to a confession of desperation for a LTR so soon.

Whether or not a girl is GF material isn't necessarily what she says, but most of it is how she carries herself

I don't go into the interaction asking a million questions. The goal is to have fun and have a great chemistry/connection together and enjoy each other's company

 

[zekko]

how the f*ck do you know if a woman you approach is 35 instead of 28 if you're at a night club?

You're looking for the love of your life in a night club? Why don't you go hang around the garbage dump, you'd probably have better luck.

We've identify on this site and many others that the mindset of a man desireing an LTR in 2018 doesn't work . It appears as needy.

It's okay to be looking for a LTR in a very vague way: "Eventually I wouldn't mind settling down if I meet the right girl". I actually think most women will see that open mindedness as a positive thing. But women have so many options, they WILL view it as needy if they think a guy wants to rush right into a relationship. Makes them look like they will settle for anything, or the first girl that comes along that can stand them. This isn't just a 2018 thing either.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

how the f*ck do you know if a woman you approach is 35 instead of 28 if you're at a night club?

or that she's a single mom?

Most of the time i approach hoping that she is dateable and most of the time she is not. The non dateable ones are always all over me and pretty much won't let me go

Dude so she looked good enough but she was almost 35? Man you have problems. You are turning down too many options and you aren't excersizing any. WTF should you care she's 35 and not 28 if she's physically attractive and she's into you?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He doesn't really have these options. They just give him a little bit of attention. He claims he has 10-15 lays but zero relationships, that is not options.

What I was saying he says he have these ladies into him but he felt they were beneath his standard.

I really hope he has more than 10-15 lays in a lifetime... That would be an issue .

 

[bigdave17]

Dude so she looked good enough but she was almost 35? Man you have problems. You are turning down too many options and you aren't excersizing any. WTF should you care she's 35 and not 28 if she's physically attractive and she's into you?

women age like garbage, ESPECIALLY white women. I see white couples at my job where a man and woman are both 45 and the woman looks like she's 10 years older


No way in hell am I dating anybody older than me. I need someone like 4 years younger and strongly prefer ethnic. My sisters are mid to upper 30s (I'm Armenian) and they look younger than white women who are 28


I need a mid to late 20s ethnic woman with a cute face and nice toned but curvy body who has no kids

 

[mrgoodstuff]

women age like garbage, ESPECIALLY white women. I see white couples at my job where a man and woman are both 45 and the woman looks like she's 10 years older


No way in hell am I dating anybody older than me. I need someone like 4 years younger and strongly prefer ethnic. My sisters are mid to upper 30s (I'm Armenian) and they look younger than white women who are 28


I need a mid to late 20s ethnic woman with a cute face and nice toned but curvy body who has no kids

Your so focused on your target you are ignoring the path it takes to get there.

You need to get into the game brother, you will have choices once you do.

Your dyck isn't going to care that she looks 27 but she's really 35 . And that would mean she didn't age horibly .

Build up your game them worry about narrowing down a target once you have choices .

 

[MrWood]

i date HB8 between 35-45 no shortages here (the 35yo here look 25 and the 40-45 yo have bodys like 25yo)
I dont date anyone over 150lb vmax (5'1-5'7)
there are literally tons of HB7+ 24-27 ready to get with 30-40yo here
Finnish girls are abit funny... either they are HB0-5 or HB7+ not alot of middle ground

perhaps you need another country...
but your game needs to be strong here to score the HB8+ Russian girls, which is my main target.

 

[CamCam]

I don't know what the hell else I can do


I'm 5'10 195 very muscular lean
I have very thick/pretty/wavy jet black hair now - I have slight recession in the corners but I'm getting that surgically fixed friday
Dress impeccably stylish
Around a 7 - 8/10 in the face - olive complexion with very strong jawline/chin


At lake shake, I saw maybe 10 guys better looking than me by a significant margin...that's 10 out of maybe 500

I'm with you bigdave17,

I've been noticing that girls of my same level, aren't interested. They have to be several points below me before they express interest.
And girls at my level, or slightly above; act like royalty.

It seems like girls 7/10 only go the for guys that are 9+, if that.

I suppose its just comes down to having more options than us men, I'm not sure if there is much we can do about it other than improving game/status

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm with you bigdave17,

I've been noticing that girls of my same level, aren't interested. They have to be several points below me before they express interest.
And girls at my level, or slightly above; act like royalty.

It seems like girls 7/10 only go the for guys that are 9+, if that.

I suppose its just comes down to having more options than us men, I'm not sure if there is much we can do about it other than improving game/status

You can create more "popularity". Cause there's not much higher than 8-9 in looks you can go. "Popularity", "status", "personality" are additional facets .

 

[guru1000]

It seems like girls 7/10 only go the for guys that are 9+, if that.

9 guys pump and dump 7s regularly. And women don't like to get P&Ded. Leverage this fact.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

How do women know my personality/self esteem before they even get to talking to me?


Why are the lower tier quality so eager to get with me then and the ones in my league never show any interest in me?

The ones who come to talk to you ARE the ones in your league. You can't seem to get this.

 

[CamCam]

9 guys pump and dump 7s regularly. And women don't like to get P&Ded. Leverage this fact.

Good tips guys; I suppose what it all comes down to is our game is weak

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I don't get any opportunities to showcase my personality is the huge frustration

Everytime I see someone I like, they're in a very difficult position to approach. The women who either approach me or make it somewhat reasonable to approach them are always way below my league

Every one of your complaints has the answer built into. Women don't want to approach. The only women that approach are DESPERATE.

If you actually HAD an "awesome personality" it would include the self-confidence to approach ANYBODY and start a friendly, playfully, sexually charged, flirtatious conversation while simultaneously radiating a "no fvcks" attitude.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You can create more "popularity". Cause there's not much higher than 8-9 in looks you can go. "Popularity", "status", "personality" are additional facets .

Good tips guys; I suppose what it all comes down to is our game is weak

What's really effed about "pump and dump" is it makes those guys appear more attractive. Since they are pursued and allow no other frame.

 

[sazc]

If you actually HAD an "awesome personality" it would include the self-confidence to approach ANYBODY and start a friendly, playfully, sexually charged, flirtatious conversation while simultaneously radiating a "no fvcks" attitude.

#micdrop